Ashley I love you with all my heart, and you know that. Yes we argue everyone does the people posting here do not know you like i know you i have been with you for 6 years! you are a wonderful person always have been we have had many great times many good memories your family loves me i love them like my own you do not know how to tell me that i might not be the right one for you? well thats something i can relate to aswell with being in past relationships I know i love you and want to spend the rest of my life with you i have known that ever since the day i hoped in my car and drove 1300 miles to be with you but u also know im an very understanding person and we did talk about it. im not going anywhere i will be here forever so my advice to you as your boyfriend is to leave me figure out ur life do what you need to do and if we are meant to be you will come back if you do not i will wish you the best of luck and i always will be here if you need me Love always and forever Matthew
marriage is a life long thing .any doubts kick him to the curve. if you haven't notice theres men all over the place
You have been living with him since you were 16 and he was 22? Why would a 20 year old start to date a 14 year old?<br />
The time to make sure that he is the one for you is now. You asked how to tell him . . . the last person that he wants to marry is a woman who is not sure that she wants to spend forever with him. As Missysue wrote, you need time to figure out who you are and what makes you happy, not to just continue in a relationship because its all you know.
Move out and get your own place.
Take a time out. You need to be alone and figure things out without being influenced by your boyfriend. Listen to your heart and that tiny inner voice that has been nagging at you. I know it's tough, but sweetie, you are so young and this is your first big relationship. Take time..by yourself. Get to know yourself well, write thing down...do a pro's and con's type thing..sometimes writing things out provides clarity. Good luck to you! :)
Just follow your heart
Sometimes we can think and anylise things to much.We ask ourselve "What if" then that "what if" lead to two more "Whats if" and before you know it we have some many possibilities we are thinking about. SOMETIMES your first reaction or thought is correct made with no emoution or thinking or "Follow your heart"
Why are you questioning it...are there reasons behind it? Familiarity sometimes can breed contempt. Take a break...not a break-up per se....but take time for yourself, will you miss him for him or just miss the company?
Then, there it is. The heart wants what the heart wants. You need to be honest with yourself and your b/f.
It is most certainly a risk. You have but one life though. I don't know if I could live with "what if" ...If you are questioning it then well...there it is. But, you have to decide what is best for you. Personally, I wouldn't want someone to stay with me if they questioned it...it isn't fair to me or to them. We both deserve better than that.
the glass is eighter half full or half empty it all depends which way you are leaning sit a while and figure the pros and cons .you will come up with the answer
what was your first guess