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Been in a relationship for 6years and now second guessing he's the one for me my only boyfriend ever help. what do i do?

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8 Answers to "Been in a relationship for 6years and now second guessing he's the one for me my only boyfriend ever help. what do i do?"

  1. Gnuggets - 26-30 years old

    Posted by Gnuggets Mar 5th, 2012 at 11:07PM

    Ashley I love you with all my heart, and you know that. Yes we argue everyone does the people posting here do not know you like i know you i have been with you for 6 years! you are a wonderful person always have been we have had many great times many good memories your family loves me i love them like my own you do not know how to tell me that i might not be the right one for you? well thats something i can relate to aswell with being in past relationships I know i love you and want to spend the rest of my life with you i have known that ever since the day i hoped in my car and drove 1300 miles to be with you but u also know im an very understanding person and we did talk about it. im not going anywhere i will be here forever so my advice to you as your boyfriend is to leave me figure out ur life do what you need to do and if we are meant to be you will come back if you do not i will wish you the best of luck and i always will be here if you need me Love always and forever Matthew

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  2. newman360 - 61-65 years old

    Posted by newman360 Mar 4th, 2012 at 5:59AM

    marriage is a life long thing .any doubts kick him to the curve. if you haven't notice theres men all over the place

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  3. effy2012 - 51-55 years old - male

    Posted by effy2012 Mar 4th, 2012 at 5:16AM

    You have been living with him since you were 16 and he was 22? Why would a 20 year old start to date a 14 year old?

    The time to make sure that he is the one for you is now. You asked how to tell him . . . the last person that he wants to marry is a woman who is not sure that she wants to spend forever with him. As Missysue wrote, you need time to figure out who you are and what makes you happy, not to just continue in a relationship because its all you know.

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  4. RiverFreedom - 51-55 years old - male

    Posted by RiverFreedom Mar 4th, 2012 at 3:35AM

    Move out and get your own place.

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  5. missysue00 - 51-55 years old - female

    Posted by missysue00 Mar 4th, 2012 at 3:10AM

    Take a time out. You need to be alone and figure things out without being influenced by your boyfriend. Listen to your heart and that tiny inner voice that has been nagging at you. I know it's tough, but sweetie, you are so young and this is your first big relationship. Take time..by yourself. Get to know yourself well, write thing down...do a pro's and con's type thing..sometimes writing things out provides clarity. Good luck to you! :)

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  6. duhhpeanut - 18-21 years old - female

    Reply by duhhpeanut Mar 4th, 2012 at 3:16AM

    Thanks. I guess it would be soo much easier if he wasnt my first love and i didnt spend 6years with him. we lived together for 4years so everything we have we have together which makes it even harder on getting out if i do leave the situation. i feel like there is a ton of stuff out there for me to exsperience that he has already since he is 26 and i am 20.

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  7. KnobbyKnees - 46-50 years old - male

    Posted by KnobbyKnees Mar 4th, 2012 at 3:08AM

    Just follow your heart

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  8. KnobbyKnees - 46-50 years old - male

    Reply by KnobbyKnees Mar 5th, 2012 at 12:54AM

    Sometimes we can think and anylise things to much.We ask ourselve "What if" then that "what if" lead to two more "Whats if" and before you know it we have some many possibilities we are thinking about. SOMETIMES your first reaction or thought is correct made with no emoution or thinking or "Follow your heart"

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  9. SweetlyLingering - 70+ years old - female

    Posted by SweetlyLingering Mar 4th, 2012 at 3:07AM

    Why are you questioning it...are there reasons behind it? Familiarity sometimes can breed contempt. Take a break...not a break-up per se....but take time for yourself, will you miss him for him or just miss the company?

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  10. duhhpeanut - 18-21 years old - female

    Reply by duhhpeanut Mar 4th, 2012 at 3:12AM

    we did a break and we got back together were apart 5months.. i love him but we been arguing again and when ever we argue i dislike him more and morel.. then there is a guy that makes me feel great about my self all the time and its making me second guess my relationship with my bf.

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  11. SweetlyLingering - 70+ years old - female

    Reply by SweetlyLingering Mar 4th, 2012 at 3:16AM

    Then, there it is. The heart wants what the heart wants. You need to be honest with yourself and your b/f.

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  12. SKwrites - 41-45 years old - male

    Posted by SKwrites Mar 4th, 2012 at 3:05AM

    what was your first guess

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