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Before getting into a relationship, do you consider their bank accounts?

if not the first thing, was it ever in your list?
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thirty30
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i don't care how much he has, just how he takes care of what he has & that he is not afraid to work.
Posted 8 months ago

Other 18 Answers to Before getting into a relationship, do you consider their bank accounts?


gaqt466
Posted Mar 1st, 2009 at 10:34AM
No, because finances can change quickly. I fall in love with the man not the wallet.
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brimliner
Posted Mar 1st, 2009 at 1:10AM
Definitely!

If she has a negative net worth, that says something about her person.
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StudentofUnifying
Life
Posted Mar 1st, 2009 at 3:40AM
Hell no. They could be the most financially stable person in the world, and still be a total douchebag.
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entrepguy
Posted Feb 28th, 2009 at 11:46PM
Not so muc their bank account, but yes, if I was romantically interested in someone, I would want to make sure they had a sound financial footing.
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krazzykilla
Posted Mar 1st, 2009 at 1:11AM
After two relationships with men who blew money so furiously that they not only ruined their own credit, but did damage to mine....HELL YEA!
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CuriosityKitten
Posted Feb 28th, 2009 at 8:54PM
That's just disgusting. Money has nothing to do with true love.
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snowbunny1002
Posted Mar 1st, 2009 at 3:41AM
Nope, not at all. It's all about the man...not his money!
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stillsleeping
Posted Feb 28th, 2009 at 11:47PM
I wouldn't want to get seriously involved with someone heavily in debt. I don't require the guys I date to be rich I do require that they be able to support themselves.
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EBunbury
Posted Feb 28th, 2009 at 7:59PM
Of course not! That would be rude!
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qazrazl
Posted Feb 28th, 2009 at 8:25PM
Not a consideration at any point of my life nor at anytime during a relationship. But once it was known, I've determined those that had plenty in their accounts, treated me carelessly.
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TheRealWoman
Posted Feb 28th, 2009 at 8:41PM
No...but sadly lots of people are "loved" for their money and that is sad.
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drcynic
Posted Feb 28th, 2009 at 8:42PM
I could care less. I have money.
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jerrica
Posted Feb 28th, 2009 at 9:22PM
if i had considered their bank accounts, i'd would never had been involved with any man because they didn't have any money.
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enjoythebeach
Posted Feb 28th, 2009 at 10:24PM
A persons personality and true nature mean so much more than any money. It's all about the human element! The closeness, the connection, and feeling safe and warm with a special someone you adore. Besides, money can't give you a hug, or respond to your needs.
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void00
Posted Feb 28th, 2009 at 11:44PM
Their attitude to money is more important to me than how much they have in their account.
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c8lorraine
Posted Mar 1st, 2009 at 1:15AM
It's not about being a 'gold digger'

Their credit rating says so much about their sense of respondsibility, honor, integrity and value system.

I'd want to know before I married again
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aloner1969
Posted Mar 1st, 2009 at 2:21AM
no... because for me money isn't everything. money can't buy you happiness. if you love that person then accept them. but you know there is always this issues about "prenuptial agreements" but it depends on you as long as you be careful and wise enough to know that that person is after your wealth and that's bad...
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soco74
Posted Mar 1st, 2009 at 5:28AM
I have spent too many yrs caring for those who dont work or work but are spend happy.Im tired and have kids to think of.Cant waste anymore time with losers!I work my butt off everyday so you can bet I will make sure the next one does too! I dont need riches,but stability and paid bills would be a nice change!
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