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Really I'm not trying to offend any obese people.. Hell according to the charts I'm obese.. but I'm just fluffy and chubby.. Anywho... I work with a mother and daughter who are both overly obese...They aren't to the point standing or walking around should be a hassle for them.. Why do they get to use the handicap parking, when there are elderly people who can barely walk, having to park miles away... ;/ I'm an ignorant ******* now? I'm sorry I'm not a heartless *****.. I'm just curious about why they get the handicap parking.. Wow... *****Seriously if the mother and daughter can push a 60+ lb cart full of newspapers to their car from their tables, I think they can walk an extra few feet to the other side of the handicap spaces... *******
GirlyGamerGeek GirlyGamerGeek 22-25, F 24 Answers Jan 15, 2010

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Judge not lest ye not be judged. Sometimes it is not so obvious a person's handicap, and it doesn't take much of a handicap to get a parking sticker in most jurisdictions. Sometimes obese people suffer secondary conditions like diabetes or asthma or heart disease, that also contributes to the need of a parking pass.

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No, but it could be the result of a disability.

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Thank You for a very good answer, Lucy. I have a placard, but it is NOT because of my obesity directly. I have severe osteo-arthritis in my legs.

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most people who are that obese also have psychological problems, but won't admit it. being fat is something they feel they can duck responsibility for. but it's a symptom of something more complex.

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I think it is hard to sympathize because it takes a lot of work to get that way...it is not an illness but a lack of self pride and self-control<br />
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why reward this?<br />
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(hate me if you must, but this question DID ask for opinions)

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At a certain point it is a disability. But what I thought was scary is that they offered my mother a handicap placard because she weighed 210. She flat out refused it. I would not use one either if it came to that point.

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I think it leads to disability,depends on the cause if it is just because of the food put in your no but if it something else maybe

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I will start being ok with that when they put parking spots at the far end for the fit people.

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See the problem here is that being fat/obese well... isn't a disablility. People treat fat people like a heart attack waiting to happen, when it's really not all that hard to be both fat AND healthy.

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I don't think it is a disability.

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it's not a disability but if the individual treats it as one then it can become one

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You're not ignorant at all. I used to think fat people are lazy, annoying, and horrendously self loathing. Now I realize that they suffer a common disease of addiction. They have spiraled into a life where they are powerless over eating, just like an alcoholic is powerless over drinking. They need a 12 step program, and need someone to tell them, "guess what? you're obese and going to die, there is help for you!" Try saying it in a nice way though, not just "you're a ******* fatass"

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I am on the border of overweight/obese and I have a placard. Not because of my weight. Because I was born with scoliosis and had to have surgery, which later resulted in severe arthritis and sciatica. My life is about 50/50. Some days I can walk just fine, other days I can barely stand for five minutes. <br />
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However, I am not a whiner or a complainer, and even if I'm in pain I usually do a pretty good job of hiding it. What I hate is when elitist, self-righteous morons (not you, I mean REAL morons) tell me the only reason I have a placard is because of my weight, and demean me and make fun of me. Just because you can't see my disability doesn't mean it's not there.

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Sometimes someone may be have a disability that you can not readily see or determine from a distance. A previous injury from a car accident or disease resulting in a broken back, spinal and hip breaks may heal but can cause continuous problems and pain. The loss of mobility can also cause someone to gain weight.<br />
These people should use the handicap spaces.<br />
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Someone who is capable of walking and simply uses the handicap space due to laziness or bc he/she is too fat from gorging themselves with too much food and in being so lazy and selfish applies for a handicap pass without a real ailment is someone incredibly self-absorbed to take a space away from someone who may actually need it. <br />
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These selfish people who feign a current or past illness or injury immobilizing them when there is none, really require a "mental handicap" sticker. <br />
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The public cannot make assumptions on which person fits into which catagory. I hope someday, the agency who distributes such passes learns to scrutinize better and fines those who applied under false pretenses.<br />
They should also video tape these self-proclaimed can't walk 10 feet "handicap" people doing what they do on when they are on vacation. Post them on the internet and on TV to embarrass them. <br />
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I am sure we would see many miracles....praise the Lord.

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Nope being obese is NOT a disability, and no offense but this is the silliest thing I have heard in a while, thanks for the good laugh. Obseity is a medical conidtion for some for an example there thyorid could not be prouding enough hormomens of it could just be that ur not taking care of urself. I once didn't care about my weight and I got up too 299lbs and now that its been 6 yrs ago I NOW weight in at 156lbs and I didn't diet or anything, I use REAL and TRUE FAITH AND WILLPOWER, I know that if I can do this like the way I am I am gonna keep it off for life and stay healthy. Never again will I let myself do anything to jerpodize my health again!!

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kuddos Debra<br />
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sure they may have other medical reasons, diabetes, heart disease but its all self induced.

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I only agree with it when it is a genetic or medical problem, not something by choice or rather stupid choices.

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