Being used?

personal preference......

I AM BEING THE BADDEST USED ALL MY LIFE
AND DON'T MEAN MATERIAL THINGS ONLY - WHAT IS THE LEAST
THERE ARE FAR WORSE EXPERIENCES IN MY LIFE

As I've posted before, people only do to you what you allow them to do. I have learned this from many experiences. People who allow themselves to be used usually have poor self-esteem and have suffered some form of abuse as children which caused them to form inappropriate boundaries or no boundaries at all. They don't feel they are worth more, deep down, no matter how much they protest. After all, we don't do things unless we get something from them, even if it is only the pain we were used to as children. There are healthy and unhealthy fits in relationships. Those where one partner feels used are usually in the latter category. Been there, done that, got the scars to prove it.

you may have a point there!

i suppose... u see, it's one thing to help but another to help under false pretenses. it's called fraud. i don't like folks with fraudulent behavior. honestly, a gift is a gift and when u do ANYTHING for someone u should consider it that cause there's a big chance u won't get the same behavior in return. it's the principle behind it. no one likes to be deceived.