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Believe it or not, Kitty actually has a serious question...?

I think I like my boyfriend's family more than I like him. I don't know what my question is, just want your opinions please? Ugh... do you need more details?

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MadMaximus	Posted Aug 23rd, 2009 at 4:59PM Just know right now that whatever you say or do to him you will not fix him. If there's something he does which annoys you now, well, he's not ever going to stop doing that and he'll probably find new ways to make himself comfortable in his old age that annoy the life out of you. His family isn't going to outweigh his bad parts. Rated: +2Vote for this!
luckypickle	Posted Aug 23rd, 2009 at 11:24AM Um kinda but I'll do my best..... Actually I've been there before where somethings he did really annoyed me but his family I felt totally at ease with. Yes it a mixed blessing in that if you do finally have enough of him....I hope that isn't your case....you stand to lose more than just a BF. But if things work out it will be much easier to deal with all the little details that life throws at you. Good question ZK. Rated: +2Vote for this!
londongothgirl	Posted Aug 25th, 2009 at 5:34PM I'm not sure that's a good thing. I guess if you really like him but just his family more then it's fine. However if you really like his family but think he's just ok, there could be trouble. Unfortunatly I don't really have much to suggest. Maybe think about what you like about him and maybe it's a lot more that you think. Rated: +2Vote for this!
pickynancy1234	Posted Aug 23rd, 2009 at 4:59PM Well, that isn't necessarily bad, but I would just suggest that you examine if you are with him to be with him, or his family. Rated: +2Vote for this!
WierdWill	Posted Aug 25th, 2009 at 5:34PM Hard to believe the Kitty is serious, but I'd have to say this is more about perspective than anything else. If you spent the same amount of time with his family as you have with him, the chinks in their armor would show more clearly. Rated: +2Vote for this!
Jujalee	Posted Aug 23rd, 2009 at 11:17AM its a semi-blessing! be happy, but figure things out with your bf so you feel the same about him =) Rated: +1Vote for this!
TheGoldenBear	Posted Aug 23rd, 2009 at 11:26AM It can happen. People move on but his family doesn't need to. Rated: +1Vote for this!
snarkbite	Posted Aug 23rd, 2009 at 11:33AM That happened to me once, I loved this guys mom and sisters and I thought he was okay... It was fun being a part of his family, and when I finally felt like I couldn't let him keep thinking that I was truly in love with him we broke it off. It was a little awkward with the family after that and I still see them occasionally, we are very civil but we lost any real closeness that we had had previously. Rated: +1Vote for this!
ELEGANCE	Posted Aug 23rd, 2009 at 11:38AM Your boyfriend will show you his whole self where you only see the surface when it comes to his family. I say be careful and not get too close/attached. You always want to keep your guard up! Rated: +1Vote for this!
maskedmenace	Posted Aug 23rd, 2009 at 12:12PM It is not at all wrong unless u hate him... Rated: +1Vote for this!
trixiegirl	Posted Aug 23rd, 2009 at 12:23PM You just say you like them more.... as long as you do like your boyfirend and aren't just with him for his family, I'd keep hanging out until you figure what comes next in your relationship. If you don't like your boyfriend, then let him go now. It won't get any easier the longer you stick around. Plus, it's just wrong. Rated: +1Vote for this!
MorbosisAngel	Posted Aug 23rd, 2009 at 3:09PM Try to find the traits that you like about his family in him...you liked him first right? Well that was obviously for a reason...there was something about him that attracted you to him.... Rated: +1Vote for this!
jillian222	Posted Aug 23rd, 2009 at 4:49PM Kitty Maybe just spend time with him only ,a couple weeks . I don't mean go away or anything like that,just focus on him without the family. Rated: +1Vote for this!
robyn	Posted Aug 23rd, 2009 at 4:56PM meow meow meow....oh, 'scuse me. i'll try again, don't worry, that will change when they're mean to you after you have a fight with or dump your boyfriend. Rated: +1Vote for this!
SamOnHisSoapbox	Posted Aug 23rd, 2009 at 8:41PM Been there .... it sucks ... you end up breaking up with 4 people instead of one ... but hey what can you do ... Rated: +1Vote for this!
Duckgirl	Posted Aug 23rd, 2009 at 11:37PM I felt that one time. Rated: +1Vote for this!

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