I had to think for a good while before answering this one. Simple question yet difficult for me to answer. Being an eternal optimist I don't depend on externals to feel good about or define myself as a man. Most definitely intelligent conversation is quite welcome and is always attractive. An inquisitive and thought-provoking personality always captures my immediate attention.
I know what women like to hear. They want the details of why your hung up on them. Like if I tell a girl her hair is short and downy and it flips arround a certinan way when she walks and It drives me to distraction or how when I see her walking by her self all the time she looks deep and contemplative and it haunts me so bad I can't get it off my mind etc. I tell women these things because I have to get them off my chest but it turns out they actually like hearing this stuff a lot.
Men may not admit it but most want to hear the same things as women do - that they're loved, appreciated, etc.<br />
In a recent survey, most men wanted their wives to know just how much the men loved them.
these responses are from my lover,<br />
1, hon dinners ready<br />
2. babe im going out for awhile<br />
3. you phuck like a stallion<br />
this is all he can think off but i can add a couple...<br />
1. can i get you something to eat sweetheart<br />
2. lets get drinks and smoke some...<br />
thatll doo yes....
Oh I found it. Boy lots of things, like "honey I won the lotto" or "babe you are sooo goood loooking". Maybe" you are hung like a donkey". What about , "every time I look at your hot boby move it makes me sooo wet". How is that for a start.
For me, truth, sincerity, sense of humor, and a nice laugh, a large dollop of common sense, and a really forgiving nature. Not that I get into trouble that much, but, I do have a tendency to get distracted.<br />
Actually, a moan isn't even required, a satisfied sigh is very high on my list at that point in time.<br />
However, trying to hit all men with your question, it is like a guy trying to hit all women with a question, can't be done.
Honesty, intrigue, sweet giggles, playing gently with hair, soft calm and gentle words of kindness, intelligence, humor, warmth, a listening ear! A song, depending on how intamate you want to get with a guy. flattery but not too much nor fake stuff. Enthusiasm, encouragement, serenity.
i answered it wrong before so this is an edit<br />
i'm not sure what a man wants to hear it depends on the guy. sometimes listening is what is really needed<br />
ask about his day, how he's doing, what are his goals and plans for the future. <br />
telling him he's sexy is always good too
Intelligent conversation with a sense of humor
What men? Many men I have known just like to hear lies. A man worth knowing wants to hear the truth as a woman sees it.