Best friends boyfriend asked me out, I said yes, found out he was hacked, his friend is telling everyone I'm a bitch.):

First World Problem

You're having suicidal thoughts over that?

Okay. Relax. This is not the end of the world. If this rumour spreads you are at liberty to deny it. It's a rumour, after all. Also, consider the character of the person spreading the rumour. You said he wasn't good at keeping secrets? If anyone asks you, you can shoot back at them with "Who the hell told you THAT?" When they say who they heard it from, roll your eyes in mock disdain and moan, "Oh, that figures!" or whatever expression feels right to you. Just don't listen to anyone who brings the subject up.

I'm glad to hear that you're reaching out for help. Do that as much as you have to, and don't stop until you find someone who listens? Does your school have a nurse or counselor you can talk to? What about a teacher? Anyone you can trust will do. The adults there are there to help protect you (despite how it may sometimes seem that isn't the case). Believe me, committing suicide over this is not worth it. You may think you made a mistake, but no one died, got their arm broken, teeth smashed in, or went to jail. It may seem enormous to you, but it isn't, believe me. Thousands of people wind up in entanglements like this all the time. It doesn't make them bad, it just makes them human.

So . . . take a few deep breaths, pull yourself together (I mean that in a good way), and don't worry about it. There will be plenty of time for that if the rumour mill really gets going. Why not wait and see if that's what actually happens first. People may not take too kindly to someone so crass speaking about you that way anyway.

If you want to discuss further, send me a p.m. Believe me, though, when I say it isn't nearly as bad as it seems to you.

Dont be suicidal over this high school bullsh*t. I think you did like the boy and will no longer be friend's with the girl--whatever really happened-whoever sent the email. I recommend NEVER dating a friend's ex or possible ex, dramadramadrama... You're just experiencing the fun world of d0uchebags...and dating gets more annoying the older you get--so get your feet wet now. I know thats not exactly an upper, but its probably true...

I don't get it..."I sort of liked my best friends boyfriend" then you say, "i like him to (i don't really..)" You shouldn't have been admitting any such feelings for your friend's boyfriend, regardless of how much or little turmoil was existent in their relationship. You should have also considered that e-mails can easily be hacked.

What B did was cruel and wrong, and it's not your fault. It sounds like the way you responded was fair, polite and appropriate. I see nothing that you did wrong.

Vessa's advice to go and talk to your best friend is excellent. Do your best to keep calm and collected, and it should be obvious that B is the one who crossed a line.

dnt wait until his friend tells everywun. u need to tel ur besfren str8 up. deal with the consequence. it may b harsh bt b strong abou it becuh u put yourself in a situation lyk this.