If she's willingly tied to the bed, what are you doing on the computer? :)
get a book love, you don't want advice from strangers.
you can also find a bdsm club. you'll be schooled there
that's where i learned all my tricks :)
Well there are wome wonderful how to books out there about BDSM. The question is what isthe basis of the fantasy. Being tied down is one thing but what is going on in the head is the real erotica. After exploring some ideas and fantasies, slong with reading, things will sorta fall into place. A trip to PetsMart for leashes and collars can be great fun with on open mind. Then some people call Home Depot the adult toy store for ome than one reasoon, chains of various types, lots of ropee for lots of things. Look at sites like Black Rose. Yes there are extemes out there an people can and do get hurt, but if handled well, it could be just sooo much fun. WEG
I agree with drix!
was this her idea or yours? if it was hers & youve never done it before then ask her what she likes... if it was your idea and she's going along with it ask her what she would be comfortable with (and set up a "safe word" as a standard practice for beginners so youll know to stop & untie her if she gets uncomfortable or freaked out)
What do you want to do next? Hmmm
Use your imagination.