Give it a lot of thought.
Ask yourself if you were planned or are u here because of an accident?
In your life is generally working out ok? What's important is do u have a stable relationship or are u going to be a simple mother with more than u can handle.
At the end of the day it's all about how much responsibilty can u handle
You are the one being selfish, not your husband! You are willing to kill your own child rather than be bothered to care for her (or him). Shame on you for even thinking it. Your baby deserves to live - you, I am not as sure about.
Well you already have the appointment so I'm guessing you're determined enough. If the only thing pointing to the other side is an unloving partner pushing you....do it I say, like you said it's your body and your life.
You really need to speak to an independant adviser before you make any choice, hopefully the abortion clinic has already given you contact numbers of people to talk to, they should have.
None of us can make your mind up for you it is your body, and your life, but you do have to take some responsibilities for being pregnant, and I really urge you if you don't want any more babies to make sure it never happens again ( I know things happen I'm truly not judging)
You do say your husband is unloving but a good dad, do you mean just unloving toward you ?
Please go and speak to someone, if the abortion clinic hasn't given you any numbers then seek out an independant service that will help you make an unbiast choice.
Look after yourself, make sure you get the help you need, take care.
No one can tell you sorry, your body your choice. Wish you peace with whatever you decide to do.