Breaking up for university?

when you say you wanted him to go to university, do you mean to the same school as yourself? you mentioned that he does have plans to attend college. he has to determine what is best for his own future... the two of you will have to work through these challenges with the best interest of both individuals in mind, if you desire the relationship to work. i believe you have already made your decision, especially since you have already determined in your mind that he was not "the one", and have had little emotional response to the separation. it seems that your feelings of remorse are only due to his own difficulty with the situation at hand. you say that the relationship was extremely meaningful while also expressing that you wish to be "free to explore". this is perfectly acceptable, but i believe it indicates that you are not perhaps wanting a committed relationship at present, at least not with your ex. it is natural to feel uncertain soon after a breakup, but i think you are searching for affirmation to your own decision.

Omg..this is ridiculous..Breaking up for an university..either u was not in true love or not mature enough to know what love is...U should allow him to shape his own career..tats completely his choice..but ditching him for the same reason has no rationality...just because u cant see him or hang out with him u should not ditch him...Even if u on the other side of the globe and will not be able to meet for another year he is ur BF!..There should be break up only when souls seperate not when physically seperate..Go to him and apologise and begin everything new again! He will be depressed badly..go to him soon