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Can a 20 year old girl fall in love with a 46 year old man?

I'm guessing it's easier for the girl to fall for the guy since he has more experience on how to treat women vs a younger guy. Anyone ever experienced this?

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    Orckiss - 26-30 years old - female

    Posted by Orckiss Sep 8th, 2011 at 12:15AM

    By the look of some of your replies to the comments posted, I would tend towards the feeling that what you are experiencing is infatuation. Maybe its because an older guy doesn't necessarily expect to be with a woman who is less than half his age, therefore he is just kind without making any moves on you (which lets face it, so many women love that!). I don't doubt for a moment you could be great friends, and I don't rule out the possibility that it may be love (my husband is 12 years older than me), but for your own sake, don't commit to anything before you know for sure - and that answer can only come straight from your own heart and nobody else. Its difficult to explain the difference between being in-love and loving somebody, but unfortunately it is only something we come to understand with time.

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  1. Aniohevetotha - 18-21 years old - female

    Reply by Aniohevetotha Sep 11th, 2011 at 7:09PM

    I love your reply... he's already made his move and in the beginning I ignored and pushed him away although I felt strong chemistry and attraction. Eventually I couldn't resist anymore and we hit it off. Amazing chemistry. Congrats!

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56 Answers to "Can a 20 year old girl fall in love with a 46 year old man?"

  1. CabbagePatchDolly - 18-21 years old - female

    Posted by CabbagePatchDolly Sep 7th, 2011 at 6:56PM

    I believe that age doesn't matter when it comes to love. However, I probably would be more wary of older men though.

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  2. Aniohevetotha - 18-21 years old - female

    Reply by Aniohevetotha Sep 7th, 2011 at 7:03PM

    agree

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  3. sunberrylovely - 16-17 years old

    Reply by sunberrylovely Sep 8th, 2011 at 10:57PM

    totally agree, u kan fall in luv with whoever sparks ur interest, but I wouldn't be so quick to persue a man so many years ahead of me....

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  4. deltadon - 46-50 years old - female

    Posted by deltadon Sep 7th, 2011 at 6:45PM

    sure .......lots of young ones with daddy issues...........& plenty of vultures to take advantage ;-P

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  5. Hurldog - 46-50 years old - male

    Reply by Hurldog Sep 7th, 2011 at 6:47PM

    I'm 47.......20 something's have no idea what happens to the human body after 40.

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  6. Aniohevetotha - 18-21 years old - female

    Reply by Aniohevetotha Sep 7th, 2011 at 7:03PM

    well they can learn...?

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  7. vikesfan06 - 22-25 years old - male

    Posted by vikesfan06 Sep 7th, 2011 at 7:48PM

    realistically, HELL TO THE NOO!

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  8. cantuseewerhappy - 18-21 years old

    Reply by cantuseewerhappy May 20th, 2012 at 3:54PM

    Why not?

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  9. Deepnthoughts79 - 26-30 years old - female

    Posted by Deepnthoughts79 Sep 8th, 2011 at 6:21AM

    No offense,but thats a little old for me,if your that age 20 years old your just starting life...his is ending...

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  10. AllegorieBootlair - 51-55 years old - male

    Reply by AllegorieBootlair Sep 26th, 2011 at 2:08PM

    Not necessarily sweetie, I'm 55 and still feel young. I've had many lovers in my life, some younger, some older. I really don't look at age, but if a young woman wants to be with an older gent why hold her back. I find that a good age difference is about 10 years though I've had girlfriends over half my age. My latest is 22 and she loves me with all her heart...

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  11. nananelson - 56-60 years old - female

    Reply by nananelson Oct 29th, 2011 at 10:42PM

    Let the young man have his flower, question is for those old dudes who cheat, or the leave the wife of their youth for new adventures.

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  12. TheSquirrel - 46-50 years old - male

    Posted by TheSquirrel Sep 7th, 2011 at 7:04PM

    I am that age, the older age. I doubt a situation like that is in the girl's best interest. The man would reach decrepitude decades before she does. Unless she has her own money and is psychologically solid, like Lauren Bacall, it is unlikely to be healthy. I suppose that if the girl is a player, that's not healthy for the man.

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  13. dreamcommander - 56-60 years old - male

    Posted by dreamcommander Sep 7th, 2011 at 6:59PM

    Of course - do not worry about the age difference, if you are happy

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  14. Aniohevetotha - 18-21 years old - female

    Reply by Aniohevetotha Sep 7th, 2011 at 7:03PM

    I agree

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  15. cantuseewerhappy - 18-21 years old

    Reply by cantuseewerhappy May 20th, 2012 at 3:56PM

    I agree as well

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  16. anjali75 - 22-25 years old

    Posted by anjali75 Nov 23rd, 2011 at 12:47PM

    Yes, I know from personal experience. Yes it can definitely happen. You are not alone. You can truly love a man twice your age with all your heart and when I say love, I don't mean infatuation - I mean true love.

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  17. Outoftheloop - 22-25 years old - female

    Posted by Outoftheloop Sep 8th, 2011 at 11:29AM

    Wasn't this the case with Celine Dion and her husband? And, aren't they still together? It depends on the people involved. But remember that with age comes a lack of stamina;)

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  18. Aniohevetotha - 18-21 years old - female

    Reply by Aniohevetotha Sep 11th, 2011 at 7:05PM

    Awwww really?! Thanks ;)

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  19. KenWX - 61-65 years old - male

    Posted by KenWX Sep 8th, 2011 at 7:16AM

    Well, I fell in love with a 23 year old girl, a long time ago, when I was 46.
    We ended up living together for 7 years, her parents totally at ease with the show.
    We broke up and she now has 2 kids by another, but we remain best friends.

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  20. stlalane - 26-30 years old - female

    Reply by stlalane Sep 8th, 2011 at 9:54AM

    heaven i need a hug!!!!!!!!!1

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  21. Aniohevetotha - 18-21 years old - female

    Reply by Aniohevetotha Sep 11th, 2011 at 7:07PM

    Awww awesome story. Wish it ended with the 2 having kids instead. xo

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  22. FoundThenLostOnTheSameDay - 22-25 years old

    Posted by FoundThenLostOnTheSameDay Sep 8th, 2011 at 5:49AM

    is it like father-daughter love? I guess, yes.

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  23. cantuseewerhappy - 18-21 years old

    Reply by cantuseewerhappy May 20th, 2012 at 3:57PM

    WRONG

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  24. c62tt9h - 46-50 years old - female

    Posted by c62tt9h Sep 7th, 2011 at 8:41PM

    It is completely possible for a woman in her twenties to fall in love with a man in his forties. Age doesn't speak to the heart.

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  25. Aniohevetotha - 18-21 years old - female

    Reply by Aniohevetotha Sep 11th, 2011 at 7:09PM

    It doesnt ;)

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  26. cuterose - 22-25 years old - female

    Posted by cuterose Sep 7th, 2011 at 6:50PM

    Yes, love knows no age.
    Besides young girls love wise men

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  27. rknst74 - 41-45 years old - male

    Posted by rknst74 Sep 7th, 2011 at 6:46PM

    Happens more often than you think these days.

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  28. Hurldog - 46-50 years old - male

    Posted by Hurldog Sep 7th, 2011 at 6:44PM

    I suppose it is possible, but it's just silly.

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  29. shanechane - 18-21 years old

    Posted by shanechane Jan 24th, 2013 at 7:27AM

    yeeesssss... I guess.. I will 19 years old when in august later...
    and I fell in love with 52 years old man...
    we meet 2 years ago.. and we fell in love in Nov last year..

    all the time we fell the same..
    we need each other ..
    that's my story...

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  30. motorsport - 18-21 years old

    Posted by motorsport May 1st, 2012 at 1:39PM

    Its my story too, i fell in love with 48 years old man when I was 16...he is my life, i want to be with him forever but I know it cant be real. I enjoy every second when I am with him. I love him so much. People around me often laugh when someone tell them, he saw us there or there. We dont go much to the society together, we live something like two separated lives, we cant be together everyday but when we have time we go out and go for walk or something else. It isnt about SOMETHING LIKE SLEEP WITH HIM. I think we will be strong, together and in love but I want that you will be strong too x) bye EL.

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  31. nananelson - 56-60 years old - female

    Posted by nananelson Oct 29th, 2011 at 10:44PM

    No, at 20 she do not know the difference of love, lust, or attention. She does not know if he is married, unless he tells her. Old men love to prey on young girls for what they want. They will treat them better then their wives.

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  32. passionatediva - 46-50 years old - female

    Posted by passionatediva Oct 29th, 2011 at 3:41PM

    Been there done that I have a 29 yearsold daughter I'm 50 year old currently her Dad 76 and died. He will use you up little girl, how you continue to go to school or you will have that old mans babies.... Then what? use you head to think and your feet to run.... Babygirl find a 25-30year old man leave 46 prev alone.

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  33. estherlolly - 41-45 years old - female

    Posted by estherlolly Oct 21st, 2011 at 1:55PM

    Listen human beings can fall in love with ANYTHING. An orchid plant, their children, the opposite sex, food, drink, etc... That being said the age difference between you is much, much too great. Anything over 11 years is a disaster & that's bible according to experts. There's also something very, very wrong with a fully grown consummated man of 46 who prefers the company of a twenty year old as opposed to a woman of his own age. Do you have an Electra complex? It's unhealthy if you do.

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