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Can a girl who only thought of me as a friend earlier, like you if I developed major changes in me? What are the signs

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  1. MiniBryant - 36-40 years old - female

    Posted by MiniBryant Jul 31st, 2012 at 2:44PM

    ONLY change for someone if you know you have character faults and you want to be a better person. Don't change likes, dislikes, interests, hobbies, etc., for anyone.

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  2. stephaniebis - 56-60 years old - female

    Posted by stephaniebis Aug 8th, 2012 at 11:03AM

    She might want a romance yes but that doesn't mean you have to make major changes. The only one I'd suggest is be happy with yourself cos if you are not, then she won't be either. Intriguing but a truism, when you are not so attached to what people think, you become more attractive - tried and tested.

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  3. Icouldntcomeuowithausername - 22-25 years old

    Posted by Icouldntcomeuowithausername Aug 6th, 2012 at 12:52PM

    Not to be a bringer of bad news. But physical attraction is important and its one of the initial things that attract people. Then everything else comes into play such as personality, intelligence and so forth. However, you should make these "major" changes for yourself because it's what you want, not to impress someone else.

    Usually girls (not necessarily true for all girls) will try to get your attention, want to talk to you, joke around, suggest hanging out.

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  4. BentWizzard - 26-30 years old - male

    Posted by BentWizzard Jul 31st, 2012 at 2:41PM

    It's easy enough to tell if someone wants to be with you, trust your instincts on that.


    The part that has me worried is how you said "change". I'll admit sometimes it goes a long way to clean the house up a bit and maybe get a new outfit to attract a girl, maybe even cutting your hair before you go for her. Other than that I can't honestly approve of any type of change. The person you are thinking about being with needs to accept you for who you ARE, not what they think you should be. If you make changes to yourself now, you will eventually whittle yourself down into nothingness and you will only be a shell of the person you are supposed to be. Nobody is worth that who is also worth having you.

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  5. frooti123 - 16-17 years old - male

    Reply by frooti123 Jul 31st, 2012 at 2:48PM

    This is the real deal: I was very fat when I asked the girl out and she said she only thought of me as a friend..... and I got a burning desire to change how I looked and get fit, not for her, for me! Now since I am fit, I have also gained more self-confidence, and funnier around girls. And now I think she is interested in me, and so am I? Would these be some signs that she is interested in me: --Mainting long eye contact, which I end up breaking --Sometimes when i catch her looking at me, she quickly looks away.

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  6. BentWizzard - 26-30 years old - male

    Reply by BentWizzard Jul 31st, 2012 at 2:50PM

    Yes those are definitly the signs, but I still wouldnt invest any emotion into her beyond being a friend though. It's obvious enough she cares more for looks than what your mind has to offer. Suppose something happened and you became crippled beyond recovery. Good looks from her perspective would no longer be an option for you anymore then what?

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