Can a man really make friends(read description)

Asked By: Thatsmystyle77 18-21, M 11 months ago

According to traditional mentality if a guy tries to be friendly with a girl then he's flirting and so he's a jerk.
And according to modern people if a guy tries to be friendly with another guy then he's a gay... then there is no way a guy can make friends?.. poor me.. O.o

Actually its something about fashion.. like modern world.. u know young people get into relationships(monkey love) just becoz its kinda fashionable.. that's what they show in movies, right?.. the girl- boy thing.. : /

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Posted by arcticfox3 Jun 12th, 2012 at 9:47AM

Most of my personal friends in life are guys. They are great friends too. So yes, a guy can really make friends!

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Reply by Thatsmystyle77 Jun 12th, 2012 at 12:03PM

Hehe.. yeah i know in real life its possible.. but i was talking about internet.. like if i send a friend request to a guy they think i'm gay?.. O.o.. am i supposed to sed friend request only to females just coz i'm a guy?.. and if i send a fr to a girl then they think i'm flirting?.. O.o
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Posted by jazzyknickers Jun 12th, 2012 at 8:52AM

*SIGHS* anyone can be friends ...i have guy friends that don't find me attractive in the least & vice versa

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Reply by Thatsmystyle77 Jun 12th, 2012 at 8:58AM

But're a girl!.. so there is no problem.. lol..
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Reply by jazzyknickers Jun 12th, 2012 at 9:00AM

true and you haven't flirted with me yay!! lol
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Posted by silentwriter180 Jun 12th, 2012 at 9:44AM

I don't think that way at all. Most of my friends are men, and I treat them all like family, which includes big hugs upon greeting. Everyone knows there is nothing going on between us, including my husband. To me, anyone who thinks that way doesn't really know the definition of friendship.

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Reply by silentwriter180 Jun 12th, 2012 at 11:05AM

I thing many people are closed minded for one. And they just listen to what others are saying. If I told you something was round, and you didn't get to see it for yourself, you would just assume that it was round, even if it really wasn't. Someone tells another "Those guys are gay because they're hugging when they meet" than that other person is going to assume that of the next two men they see hugging. We live in a very closed minded society. There are only a few of us who are lucky enough to have a mind open enough to see the other side. Am I making sense? I love people for WHO they are in their hearts, not for what they look like or do on the outside...
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Reply by Thatsmystyle77 Jun 12th, 2012 at 12:03PM

Yupp.. in real life its not at all like that.. actually in life who cares what u're doing?.. lol.. i mean on internet.. like if i send a friend request to a guy they think i'm gay?.. O.o.. am i supposed to sed friend request only to females just coz i'm a guy?.. and if i send a fr to a girl then they think i'm flirting?.. O.o
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Posted by Ashida Jun 12th, 2012 at 9:41AM

i have u as my friend and i found that u are not flirt with me...maybe because you do not know my gender?...hahaha, whatever it is, it based on your intention, if you think you are sending friend request to those girl for flirting, then thats you are...but im sure, someone who are really sincere to be friends will never count on gender...

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Reply by Thatsmystyle77 Jun 12th, 2012 at 12:00PM

By ur username i think u're man, no?.. idk.. lol.. to me it doesn't count becoz what on internet is different between a man and a woman?.. lol..
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Reply by Ashida Jun 12th, 2012 at 12:04PM

if im not a man than im a woman, if not a woman than im a man....hahaha...
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Posted by AaronSousuke Jun 12th, 2012 at 9:28AM

My first best friend was a girl, and I have never flirted with any of my female friends. And I have had male friends, and I'm not gay.

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Reply by Thatsmystyle77 Jun 12th, 2012 at 11:58AM

My best friend is also a female and we don't flirt coz we're not into that.. haha.. its just with internet.. in real life its more normal..
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Posted by JamieLee1 Jun 12th, 2012 at 9:11AM

What planet do you come from. That survey and opinion is absurd. Who cares who your friends are. And if they do? Dump them...................

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Reply by Thatsmystyle77 Jun 12th, 2012 at 11:57AM

I was talking about internet people.. i know its not applicable in real world coz never faced that...
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Posted by lostsoulswillfindtheirwayhome Jun 12th, 2012 at 8:55AM

When a guy flirts, he is not a jerk. He's just a guy.

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Reply by Thatsmystyle77 Jun 12th, 2012 at 8:58AM

then what about the guys who don't flirt with anyone?
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Reply by lostsoulswillfindtheirwayhome Jun 12th, 2012 at 9:00AM

He's not normal.
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Posted by fo2los Jun 12th, 2012 at 4:24PM

it's not true and even if it's true don't care about who says you will be a gay if you became friend with a boy ,be you **** anyone .i have alot of friends i mean boys and that doesn't make from me a gay so that is bullshiet

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Posted by charmcaster6177 Jun 12th, 2012 at 11:54AM

gender doesn't matter in friendship

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