Can a man who loved strippers walk away from them for his fiance? (me..) He said he has, is it true?
13 Answers to "Can a man who loved strippers walk away from them for his fiance? (me..) He said he has, is it true?"
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Advice ---- Buy a pole
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Anythings possible but that's for you to decide, because we don't know what kind of person he is to say whether or not he has changed. If that was me and I have that kind of problem, I would say if I love the person I'm with................ as in "in love" I would change for them. But it all varies from person to person :)
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You just made me think of it from a different angle... maybe I doubt him bc I doubt myself... He has asked me to change things that maybe I am afraid I wont stick to... for the record, as long as we have known each other, he has not been to a ***** club, he has been with me every night since we have been together and when we were just dating, we talked all night on the phone... I think that it might be me not trusting either him or possibly..myself.
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that's like giving up a fictional character for a real person. Maybe I don't get it.
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i heard this is the plot of The Notebook 2
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Only he can tell you this
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Yes, as long as he finds SEXUAL FULFILLMENT with you.
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Ok, this is a good point. I have to talk to him about this because this is basically the issue, isn't it? I have not asked him straight up and I need to... When we first became intimate, I was more experienced than him and he is NEVER shy about what he wants and neither am I, I have actually made him blush on occasion... We have sex every day, sometimes up to 5 or 6 times... I am just scared that if we have a baby or if we don;t have as much time, he will start to miss easy access to whatever he wants because he is an extremely sexual guy. I've never been with a man that actually dominated me, I've always been more dominant in bed...
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Why do you care? Men like looking at women, they aren't going to change. He's not cheating on you, judge indulging in something that very probably makes him desire you more.
We woman are do ridiculous about trying to control men that they even get their fantasy worlds questioned. Now, if you had a practical complaint about the money he spends in those places...Like (1)
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My complaint is practical, he is indulging in something that makes me uncomfortable. I want to be proud of my man, and feel empowered in the home, not like a *** bag. I don't like it.
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I don't like it. It's not judging, it's what I feel. He can like it, others can like it- it doesn't work for me.
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You seem like a really bright woman-you won't fall for anyone's crap. Yet he's hanging with Jasmin and Diamond, tucking 20's in the rubberband that they call their underwear, He cannot, will not-has never and hell will freeze over first before he gives up his ******-on-a-pole. What was your profession before you met?
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Hospitality, basically bending over backwards for people (not literally)
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Lots of these guys take a girl off the pole but still go to the clubs- he cannot be rehabilitated-do you know where he is at night?
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The sign on the wall says "for entertainment purposes only" so why can't he have some fun and still be committed to you?
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ok... so this means that I can go have fun too? Because I had to give up dancing with other men... and I am a dancer... but he's jealous of me watching other men and them "touching me".. why can't I salsa but he can see naked girls?
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What's good for the goose is good for the gander :)
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Im more suprised you got engaged to someone who does that knowlingly..
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he did it with his buddies in the marine corps
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Lmfao! XD
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He probably will for a short while but I have a good feeling he will go back to them.
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How come? I'm great in the bedroom. I am hot.
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I am scared to admit that I agree with what you are saying.. just want to know why..
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Posted by Unique4real Jun 20th, 2012 at 4:46PM
Can i ask you about your doubts as you know the bachelor party and strippers party and celebration of the before marriage , so it is like he and you should talk first before taking a much further steps into marriage as these doubts will make you always doubt him and do argument for the previous ***** work thing he was into . You are goddess and so be like sure taht if he loves you he will do the best to stay away from the ***** thing, but about other girls as you know men are men or most men are men and can't stop looking at girls . I look at cats and dogs and animals and nature around me more than women although when see beauty always get attracted to and comment but nothing more :).
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Reply by alwaysangrygal Jun 20th, 2012 at 4:54PM
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Reply by Unique4real Jun 20th, 2012 at 5:02PM
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