Can A Relationship Work With A 15 Year Age Difference? What If The Older Party Is Insecure For No Good Reason ?
13 Answers to "Can A Relationship Work With A 15 Year Age Difference? What If The Older Party Is Insecure For No Good Reason ?"
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my boyfriend is 10 years older than me and we have been together for 2 years older men tend to be insecure and over protective but i really think it is just because they have a "young" partner and he feels like he could lose you to someone younger or more attractive, more energetic, etc. I know it can work. better than some other relationships sometimes it just needs a little more reassurance and letting that person know your not going anywhere.
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Well said!!Like (1)
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This is a good insight. I was in a relationship similar not so much in age but, vast differences in beauty, and marketability. I always felt like, "why would you ever want me when you could have anyone you wanted"?!?! Completely abandoning the idea that maybe she wanted me... well... it didn't last to say the least. Insecurity sux!Like (1)
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just be happy! and if you have too,reasure your partner that it dosn't worry you!! As long as thier are tyrue feelings,age shouldn't matter. hugs
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We are 32yrs apart and he had insecurities in the beginning, "you can have anyone you want, why me, if you find someone else please tell me don't let me find out, I'm getting old, you might want to find someone younger ..." but he knows now that I am not going anywhere, he knows I love him for who he is. I even love his litlle wrinkles at the corner of his eyes when he smiles, poor me! But I had to cut down the phone calls/sms tio my male buddies and chat on Facebook to make him feel better and show him he do not have to worry. If you love him that much what would you not do to see him happy?
It will go away eventually, as you guys go further in your relationship.
PS: insecurities has really not much to do with only the age.Like (1)
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That's just the thing I love every wrinkle he has I think he's completely attractive from head to toe!
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Happy I am not the only one to love wrinkles, everybody else don't understand. It's like everytime he smiles I can see how much he have been happy. I just love him!
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its not going to work out if he can't get over the insecurities. That would be too much drama for anyone.
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It can work if you truly love and care for each other and are mentally and physically able to cope with the eventual aging partner!
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The age difference wouldn't make any difference if the older party tries to match up with the fitness of the younger one.Yes, we have some real bright example of those, but with all health,wealth and benefits, if any party in sick from mind, then the whole thing would be ruined eventually.
Insecurity is a self killer which gives rise to many other mess, till it puts the final nail in the coffin of the relationship.Both the parties should be really balanced and above all, they should understand each other and reciprocate when time demands for it.Like (1)
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The older party is probably feeling inferior and insecure about losing you to someone younger and/or better looking, perhaps. If that person keeps being insecure, that insecurity could project as being suspicious all the time and anticipating infidelity. I would try to work it out and reassure that person, but there's a limit to how much you can tolerate.
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ii dont wana hurt anyone but i dont think its gona work .....and 15 years old is not just an age difference , its a generation difference .... but still this world is strange and anything can happen in this world so best of luck :)
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Get rid of the insecure part and I sure hope so, otherwise probably not
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It can but when one of the two is insecure then like in any relationship it's going to chip away at the good. Insecure people are not really relationship material.
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If someone is insecure then no probably not
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insecure as in "always thinks you are going to cheat on him insecure"? or are you the older, insecure party?
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Im the younger party ... Hes 49 ... Im 34
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Is he always concerned that you may be cheating on him or want to cheat on him? Or is he just in disbelief that 34 year old you wants to be with 49 year old him
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Posted by ISCARIOT Jul 13th, 2012 at 11:00AM
All you need is love.
All you need is love.
All you need is love, love.
Love is all you need.
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