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Colonattus Colonattus 26-30, M 13 Answers Dec 27, 2012 in Dating & Relationships

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They can be a friend, but not MY friend.

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If you are equally selfish, it should be great. You can both be self centered and neither of you will notice if the other one isn't interested in anything you have to say or want to do. If it's a one way street, eventually you're going to resent it.

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i agree

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first off, shelfishness is usually accompanied with other disliked traits , so better leave him or her alone, unless are trying to buy some unwanted trouble later, no don't make friends period

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THANK YOU...

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Apparently so. I don't see it happening again, though.

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If it is not greed itself, it can work out, depends how much you love your best friends, for me it could work out if my friends turns to Satans. I love them does not matter what.

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but will you not feel consumed as their selfishness hurts you? like they never stop talking abut themselves all the time?

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Me and my friends have different relationships. I'm very simple person by myself, if my bestfriendy talks sh*t about how cute she is and bla bla bla I put soap in her mouth and make her shut up.
If it's bestfriend he/she will understand and love you anyways, no matter what you say.
Just be honest with friends :3

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thanks, i will buy some soap then

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Am I talking to male or female and what sex is your best friend?

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i am a male and he used to be my friend years and now i just cant take it,, he even doesnt know the name of my girl friend or my siblings, he makes me feel he doesnt care

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You are two boys. Just give him knuckle sandwich in his face and tell him everything what you think. Or he will understand and try to improve or you lose him. At least you will be sure that you did your best. ^_^

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its like you,re telling me to give him a last chance

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You're complaining about you friend.
I'm just saying that if you think that he does not care about you, it's not friendship at all.
If you are sure that he cares about you as much as you do, and I see you do A LOT. then he won't let you slip away, because if my friend would come to me and told me "I think you don't care about me" I would slap him accros face. Friendship = care. Find out if he cares.

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perhaps...but that would mean you have other friends that might as well be enemies...because it's pretty hard to be a very good friend if one only cares for one's self

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you exactly said what i hinted to

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They can, however, I believe that people tend to relate to others that affirm who/how they are themselves.

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It's all about your expectations.

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i expect they wont give up on their selfishness and still only care about themselves

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Then you are good to go!

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i gotta go yeaa

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If you're unlucky

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indeed

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