Can a spouse stop having feelings or have no more love for the other? and so decides to split to sort out feelings?
7 Answers to "Can a spouse stop having feelings or have no more love for the other? and so decides to split to sort out feelings?"
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Love is a commitment ba
sed on a decision. No where is that more true than in marriage. When a person stops loving that also is a decision. Like (1)
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Christ will help u by u learning more about his feelings for u yur man would have to idolise christ in order to be treating u with the respect dignity and thought to consern his thoughts for u i can relate with yur question very much been married to him for 21 years so i went to christ for the greatest love of all but as i sit in mybedroom writing u this and hes preoccupied with pleasing himself by being around people i have nothing to like about the conversation that preoccupies their minds ive been sighing in my loneliness and depression of isolating my self in my bedroom for god only knows how long now and im quite the longsufferer for tolerating wat i dont like in him
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yes
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Yes, I have had that happen to me many times. I don't believe in separation to sort out feelings. If the person isn't sure, then it is over for me.
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Yes, if you are with someone who arent what you thought they were, so you fall out of love.
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acutally weve been together for 12 years,, married for 5 ..... he says he wants to come back but is scared he might feel this way.. and if he leaves ,, he's scared hes gonna loose us. hes too confused.. doesnt know what he wants.. I told him to think long and hard becuase its affecting me and my son and I refuse to go thru this again .. and it was due to me degrating him during a heated argument we had 1 month ago .... he forgave me .. but yet he still thinking about the past.... help!
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You need to have a deep conversation with him, alone. Face to face. One that lasts all day even, completely talking about how you feel & what caused you to say the things you did that day. Dont hold back, so then he can see you're being open, so he wont be afraid to open up. Dont judge him, you wouldnt want to be judged. Maybe you did something you didnt notice and he's hurting from that.
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under sensitive circumstances.
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Best Answer (Chosen by Voting):
Posted by bigpapa62 Aug 12th, 2012 at 2:23PM
Yes, but there is usually alot more to it, like a history of poor commuication
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Reply by bigpapa62 Aug 12th, 2012 at 2:37PM
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Reply by kathr1322 Aug 12th, 2012 at 6:17PM
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