Can a violent man ever change? can u just stop the violence completely?

Yep. As soon as you are bigger and stronger than them. They do what they think they can get away with.

No.
If he hits you once he'll do it again.
My momma always told me that.

In my experience - no.

I doubt it. Violent men ( and women) are usually repeat offenders.

I would not stick around to find out.

Yes, with an ice-pick lobotomy through the eyeball into the frontal cortext area, no anesthesia needed. That's what they did to violent boys when I was growing up.

I think people can change but it's up to them and no one else.

No you can not I have been there along with many others in a refuge they say they will stop they will for a short time time. it is hard but when you look back you thank the day you left. 18 yrs behind me and happy. x

probably not unless it is a rare medical condition making them that way

don't hang around to find out. Personal safety is underrated.

Losers dont change until they have hit extreme bottom and have a life changing experience.

changes slooooowwwlllyy and with lots of help

A violent man can stop being violent, yes. People choose their actions, you can choose to change your habits and behavior.

Make him watch a care bears marathon

From someone who knows Yes they can once they get very sick and can't take care of themselves you would be surprised how wonderful they can be...Trust me..When they know you can take them out they change..lol

No

Only after given the chair will he truly change

He's not going to stop until you're not there.

I've raised my fisted once at my wife but probably never do it again. We can talk to each other now and not get mad when we misinterpret or disagree about something. She was always to pushy when she wanted a answer. I never wanted to give an answer because it would just hurt her feels and than the agreement would just continue on and on and on.

Your situation is much different. The man has to want to change. If he's begging or talking sweetly to you that he'll change, he's not going to. He's only acting out of passion. If he's calm, rationale, understanding, and coopertive he may change. If he ever gets to that point you have to do the same.

ive never met one that has ever changed. i grew up watching my mother get beat, thats horror on a child. he would cry and appoligize after every blackeye. he tried to shoot her with a shot gun, thankfully he didnt know how to aim it. but her coffie cup spattered glass all in her face. he once said it was because she would never stand up to him. it took him leaving her for another woman to get rid of him. my mother had to buy him a suite so he could marry the other woman. he would of hit me if wasnt so afraid of going back to prison. they get worce or they leave. my advice for anyone, especially with children get help and leave.