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My boyfriend is abusive I just wanna know. does any one know of first hand experience if the dude has changed.
tf1113 tf1113 18-21 20 Answers Feb 1 in Dating & Relationships

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I've went through it for too many years.. It only gets worse. I urge you to leave now. But you won't.

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oh yeah! they can get WORSE

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Abusers often groom their partners before the abuse starts. He partly chose you cause he knew you would fall for his "im sorry's" It is not your job to fix him. Get out before he ruins your life and your self-worth and self-respect suffers.

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Ain't that the truth...

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Nope ! You are also to young to be putting up with that crap . Run, like a zombies chasing you .

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No, abusers almost never change, and the abuse feeds on itself and escalates over time. The post abuse apologies are never sincere, they are manipulative.

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Uhm leave. Don't be another statistic.

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NO. I was in an abusive relationship. It's like it's hardwired into their brains to be hurtful to others. Yes, they can be nice for a short while, but eventually the demon will manifest himself AGAIN.

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They NEVER do trust me

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no it only gets worse , you're with a monster

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your a guy. do u know from experience? Have ur guy friends not been able to change.

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it only changed when she got away and he found another . I was watching a cop show and the wife kept going back eventually her hubby killed her of course that happens in real life more than we can imagine

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This is not the response i was hoping for but the response i expected. I just wanna believe so much that the man i love isn't a horrible person.

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People can change but they don't.

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no get away while you can

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NO , they so take that is their place

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U cant change someone with anger issues like that bro

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My boyfriend says hurtful things to me. it's verbal abuse, but I have a wicked tounge, so sometimes I can make come backs that make him shut up and cry. He doesn't learn though. Always throwing my past in my face telling me I'm trash.... My ex was physically abusive, it didn't stop till i left him.

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But I advise you to leave him either way. I feel like a push over just sticking around this *******. if it weren't for my son I'd be like Justin Timberlake... Gooone.

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Personally I do not believe an abusive man will change and if it was me I would kick him into touch

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If he's abusive with you, don't hold out for change. Maybe if enough girls leave him, he'll learn what he's doing wrong and maybe not, but you can't stick with him on the journey. He's not going to change as long as someone is putting up with his cr@p.

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I hate to say,"NO"...very seldom at best

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