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Can anyone tell me how to be STRONG "not to get back" to my ex bf? PLZ help me. He's an assshole, but I still luv him :(

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Asked By: Ambrokenallover 26-30, F  6 months ago

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6 Answers to "Can anyone tell me how to be STRONG "not to get back" to my ex bf? PLZ help me. He's an assshole, but I still luv him :("

  1. heanre - 22-25 years old

    Posted by heanre Nov 8th, 2012 at 6:28AM

    have mercy on yourself

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  2. 0ppa - 36-40 years old - male

    Posted by 0ppa Nov 8th, 2012 at 5:41AM

    Examine yourself as well and try to figure out why you want him back. If you were sexually involved with him, then part of the reason could be you are addicted to him on a biochemical level. Clean your clothes and place thoroughly to get rid of his essence.

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  3. Ambrokenallover - 26-30 years old - female

    Reply by Ambrokenallover Nov 8th, 2012 at 5:52AM

    yeah making love with him was incredibly waaaaw,,, and yes am addicted to making love to him, never felt like this with anyone,,, its not sex, its warm love in bed,,, i guess half the reason i cant let go or resist going back to him, is sexual chemistry as u say,,, but how can i stop this ?

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  4. 0ppa - 36-40 years old - male

    Reply by 0ppa Nov 8th, 2012 at 5:56AM

    Time will help as well as finding someone else. The best thing you can do is to cleanse all your things of his smell and to put away or get rid of things that remind you of him. Rearrange your furniture as well. Go for a new beginning.

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  5. tuesdaywind - 46-50 years old - male

    Posted by tuesdaywind Nov 8th, 2012 at 5:29AM

    i remember a biker broad saying to a heart broken woman the best way to get over a man is to get under a an other man

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  6. Ambrokenallover - 26-30 years old - female

    Reply by Ambrokenallover Nov 8th, 2012 at 5:34AM

    loool, i tried this too, but later things didnt go with the new guy, or any other guy, i tried other serious relationships, all get screwed up! guess i cant make it up with other guys cuz i still love him

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  7. losttoday60 - 51-55 years old - male

    Posted by losttoday60 Nov 8th, 2012 at 5:26AM

    focus on other places in your life.....your job, your hobbies, your friends, your children....fill your life with things that are good...make yourself happy. If there is emptiness in your life, you will end up longing for him and then may act on those needs.

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  8. Ambrokenallover - 26-30 years old - female

    Reply by Ambrokenallover Nov 8th, 2012 at 5:43AM

    yes even if am busy here and there...its all about longing,,, i always do long for him, long for the moments and feelings... what should i do about the longing?

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  9. losttoday60 - 51-55 years old - male

    Reply by losttoday60 Nov 8th, 2012 at 7:40AM

    I sometimes long for a person who I have had no contact with for 18 years. I was completely drawn to her....but in a way that was unhealthy. Time did not completely erase the longing, but made it more manageable. Having no contact was helpful for me. Talking to friends and getting their support is also helpful.

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  10. NoodlePan - 16-17 years old - male

    Posted by NoodlePan Nov 8th, 2012 at 5:26AM

    You don't need his ***, you can find a greater love that you deserve :)

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  11. Ambrokenallover - 26-30 years old - female

    Reply by Ambrokenallover Nov 8th, 2012 at 5:46AM

    i cant love any other guy! when i get in other relationship, i cant love them!

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  12. crabby24 - 46-50 years old - female

    Posted by crabby24 Nov 8th, 2012 at 5:23AM

    No you don't,because you deserve better and your no 1 not your ex,he's a looser and he's no good.

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