Yes, if a guy tries to squeeze his giant foot into one of my high heels (shoe fetish), it will destroy my shoe, which in turn will destroy the relationship
That depends on the fetish.
If a guy gets hot when he sees a certain kind of underwear or stockings - I might not only not mind, I'd probably wear those kind more often.
On the other hand, if the guy wants wear a diaper and have me change it, well, no. That would be a relationship killer.
what on earth is your fetish?
Yeah. I'd have to say you should both be into the same fetish if it is going to enhance the relationship. If it's something that you feel you have to keep hidden and private, it could destroy the relationship.
depends if mutual, or selfishly singular
It really depends on the couple. It destroyed my friend's 12-yr marriage because what started as a cute fetish just kept progressing over several years until he demanded so much perversion that my friend could no longer approve of his wishes and they had to end it.
I say depends on the person and fetish. I will try something or be in the mood for it sometimes but I hate when it is imposed or once I have said enough my request is not honored
hopefully both, i know they can destroy them
yes, they can do both