Can I ever live a normal happy life after being raped? will my constant fear and panic ever leave?
9 Answers to "Can I ever live a normal happy life after being raped? will my constant fear and panic ever leave?"
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Well, hon, if you want to waste your whole life, you can spend decades playing the feminist "I'm a victim" hate game. But you would be a lot better off dropping the feminist hate and getting on with being a decent woman.
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stop it!
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If you don't want our opinions, you shouldn't ask for them. No, I won't support your feminist "I'm a victim" hate program.
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Yes, you can. It's a ****** situation, it's not fair and life never helps make anything easy but you can still live a happy life. Traumatizing situations really shake us up, sometimes for years- it may take a while for you to recover, to be able to be more trusting or less anxious but it can happen. I strongly recommend speaking to someone in a professional light or at least a support group, perhaps a close friend. I wish you the best of luck, hang in there!
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Yes..very much so. A choice to want to heal and move on..i get it. You can though..it is possible, lean on the LORD ( i would anyways) i didnt figure that out until twelve years ago..before i didnt even realize how it effected me..hugs..and keep on keeping on.
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yes you can..you become the survivor instead of the victim.
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You might not. Time does not necessarily heal all wounds. You have to take measures to ensure that fear and panic do not become ingrained into your personality as a permanent way of looking at the world.
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You can with help - Seek counseling honey
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Yup...
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Yes you can and will.
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Posted by maxximiliann Dec 16th, 2012 at 3:10PM
I'm so very sorry for what you've been put through. I can tell you, though, that many in your exact same situation have been able to overcome and become survivors of their rape. You can't do it alone though. You're going to need lots of professional care, love and time. But you WILL heal and you WILL be able to put it behind you forever.
Who knows, you may even be able to use your own experience to help other victims overcome as well. The point is, if you get all the love and care you need right now you'll be ok in the end :)
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Reply by gunsnrose Dec 16th, 2012 at 3:25PM
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Reply by maxximiliann Dec 16th, 2012 at 3:34PM
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