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Can i live with the person who dont love me but i do love him?

My boy friend has taken 4days leave from office and went his island i was happy thinking that i will get more time to talk him as he is free. But i was wrong every night i just wait for his call which never come. until midnight i give miss calls to him he make it busy and about 12 he sends me a message saying mom is here so cant talk. good night. take care. bye.........
Posted 6 months ago
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Sure you can, I do. I love my husband but I am not in love with him. I want my space when he's around but he is always calling me. When I go out he ruins anything I do by calling me or stalking me. I went to a baby shower once and he called me and wanted to stay on the phone with me during the gift opennings. He's clingy and that is one more reason I diss him. Maybe you should stop chasing him and do your own thing. Perhaps treat him more like a room mate and start going out with other men.
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Posted May 17th, 2009 at 3:27AM
you can live with someone who doesn't love you, but it's probably going to be more fun to keep bashing your head into a brick wall, be with someone who loves you, try you for awhile and figure out why you would want to be a scratching post.
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Posted May 17th, 2009 at 3:32AM
ARE YOU SURE HE DOESN'T LOVE YOU? IF SO, YOU WILL JUST BE MISERABLE TRYING TO SQUEEZE LOVE FROM A DRY ORANGE! MY EX STOPPED LOVING ME THE LAST 2 YEARS, IT WAS THE MOST MISERABLE 2 YEARS. I TRIED TO HOLD ON TO HIM, BUT HE JUST GREW TO HATE ME INSTEAD. IF HE NO LONGER LOVES YOU, BEST YOU MOVE ON QUICKLY, RIP THAT BAND AID RIGHT OFF!
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Posted May 17th, 2009 at 3:02AM
That was rude of him but don't judge him on one time.
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Posted May 17th, 2009 at 3:25AM
There really is no reason to stay with someone who doesn't love you back. Maybe right now you believe you can live like that, but it'll eventually get to you. And when you realize it later, it might just be harder to let go. You're worth more than that. If you're giving your all to someone who's not giving you the love you deserve, then it's time you find something better. You can try talking to him about it; maybe he can change his behavior. But if things don't improve, don't give him the satisfaction of hurting you.
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Posted May 17th, 2009 at 9:43AM
You can, but I wouldn't advise it...You're just going to end up getting hurt more....Why would you WANT to live with someone who doesn't love you back?
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Posted May 17th, 2009 at 9:43AM
if you can afford then you should its your life and if you have trust in your relationship and your love that one day you will win his heart so best of luck and avoid little things in such type of relationship and try to creat understanding and respect of feelings..

Best of luck.
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Posted May 17th, 2009 at 3:16PM
If you continue then you are not being fair to yourself. Why not find someone who will love you.
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Posted May 18th, 2009 at 9:16PM
i think give him more more more space to find himself. Anyway he would realize his mistake. You know in your situation you are facing now is the best time to also find yourself. I also have been in the same situation where my bf seems doesn't love me. But stop giving my time for him, because the more i give time and think with , the more i get hurt and i lost myself.The only thing you are such special for him if you make some distant from him so he will know your value. People sometime realize the value of a thing or person when it is gone.
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Posted May 19th, 2009 at 5:33AM
Well if you are sure that he doesn't love you or he is repeating the behaviour you mentioned here than he might lost interest so i guess it will be hard for you to live with him because you will do your best to please him and he won't change so the only person you are hurting here is you and i think that every person deserves to be loved in return for his love
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Posted May 19th, 2009 at 12:01PM
If you are ready to get hurt ,, then good luck
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