Can men and woman have true plutonic communication? I know this has been asked many times before many times?
So I ask this cause I just dropped off my 3 sis to airport. A week in our house . Was great times BUT when my husband even mentions that I have 4 men under my spell I gotta wonder.
I don't wear seductive clothes but I do pamper my guests!
All 3 of the men made a comment when they were alone with me at sometime during their stay
My siss are all knockouts - they would not like to know this
Telling someone they are beautiful isn't the same as telling them they want to be intimate!
Petra
21 Answers to "Can men and woman have true plutonic communication? I know this has been asked many times before many times?"
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yes as long as there is no sexual attraction between either of them.
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It is possible for men and women to have platonic conversations, however, with the over emphasis of sex in our society those conversations have become very rare. Everyone these days is seemingly looking for sex and it is that appeal that they most prey on.
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Its hard but it can happen. I mean if you set guidelines. And neither of you play games. I guess you have to have a really busy lifestylle to not sink into thst uncontrollable urge to control someone.
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Why not , platonic or just innocent for the most as it seldom turn into something else , you know West is not India .
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Yes I believe that can be friends hang out , mag each other or however they communicate and not talk about sex .
It ruins a good friendship if one person crosses that lineLike (1)
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yes...why not.
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It depends on the personalities involved. Some men and women are always going to be tempted to take a friendship to the next level, especially if they struggle with a psychological issue that seeks ex
pression through intimacy. Other people can handle platonic most of the time, unless a particular situation triggers certain issues or emotions, and thus draws them in deeper.
The bottom line is that you just never know how people are going to respond to each other. Hopefully, even if buttons are pushed, people can maintain control over themselves, be respectful, do the right thing, and honor previous commitments.Like (1)
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I can,but most women i know ,i have slept with too. So maybe i cant. :) I would be totally monogamous if i was seeing someone though.
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Yes, I do it all the time with women -- and I have never felt guilt about it, and even share information of my communication ... with my wife.
Have never cheated, and never expect to cheat on my wife.
Aha! (Lightbulb just went on in my brain!) Perhaps this IS why I am able to have platonic communication with ladies.Like (1)
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Impossible unless it is someone from another planet.
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Men and women process sexual attraction on different levels. Plutonic relationships are possible but there are varying factors such as age and mental capacity. J.D. Rockefeller was once quoted as saying, 'Women and money share unique similarities in a man's mind. If you have had it, ou think about other things. If you haven't then the thoughts occupy your mind'
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Only Neptunic.
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nope...........I fuckkk all my girl friends
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Of course! I have close relationships with several female friends.
But it's much more difficult when the girl is a knockout like you say.
It's possible but rare, other happily married men are you're best bet at a platonic relationship. Other wise he just has to be enough of a gentlemen and a friend of your husband to respect that boundary.
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Yes you can have platonic relationships. Two of my closest freinds are females and i have knoiw them for 32 and 20 years respectively
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Yup.
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Sure
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Absolutely as long as both are honest up front about where they are.
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women can, but if the man finds the female attractive he is always going to want to have more than platonic relations, or at least thougths.
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Best Answer (Chosen By Asker):
Posted by Lovedolls Jan 1st, 2013 at 3:54PM
Yes, if they are not attracted to each other in anyway.
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