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My parents were mad at me, and she hit me...so when they left I wrecked the house...and now I'm scared I'll get hurt again. :(

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    SilenceEvermore - 18-21 years old

    Posted by SilenceEvermore Jan 1st, 2013 at 10:25AM

    You should clean the house up, for starters..as reacting in such a manner will only serve to demonstrate to them that you are immature, meaning that hitting you as they would a small child who did something bad is the answer, instead of sitting down and talking to you as they would an adult they had a problem with.

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  1. SmilesGoForMiles - 13-15 years old

    Reply by SmilesGoForMiles Jan 1st, 2013 at 10:26AM

    But why? :(

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  2. SilenceEvermore - 18-21 years old

    Reply by SilenceEvermore Jan 1st, 2013 at 10:27AM

    Why what O.o?

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  1. Frustratedbigtime - 36-40 years old

    Posted by Frustratedbigtime Jan 1st, 2013 at 10:26AM

    Clean it up the best you can and apogize when they get home.
    Don't sink to the level of physical means when you get angry. It never turns out good.

    Parents who hit their children need to stop the violence. There's too much in this world already!
    Good luck.

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  2. SmilesGoForMiles - 13-15 years old

    Reply by SmilesGoForMiles Jan 1st, 2013 at 10:28AM

    Ok. Thank you. :)

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  3. soulsearchingforever - 26-30 years old - female

    Posted by soulsearchingforever Jan 1st, 2013 at 10:26AM

    clean the house, whatever you cant fix you cant change, when your parents come home ask calmly to sit and talk to them, keeping things bottled up in heated situations doesn't help...remember they are your parents who love you unconditionally, arguments happen, things get broken - things can be replaced,people cant!

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  4. SmilesGoForMiles - 13-15 years old

    Reply by SmilesGoForMiles Jan 1st, 2013 at 10:27AM

    Alright. They might not listen...but I can try. :(

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  5. soulsearchingforever - 26-30 years old - female

    Reply by soulsearchingforever Jan 1st, 2013 at 10:29AM

    if they wont listen then write down how you are feeling and give it to them,give them a big hug, tell them you are sorry and more than anything tell them why you trashed the house...its important for them to understand how much there actions hurt you and vice versa (((((hugehugs)))))) xxx

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  6. HardingP119 - 36-40 years old - male

    Posted by HardingP119 Jan 1st, 2013 at 10:28AM

    As long as you are in your parents home, you live by the rules. If they have hurt you for no reason there is a way to address those issues.

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  7. SmilesGoForMiles - 13-15 years old

    Reply by SmilesGoForMiles Jan 1st, 2013 at 10:30AM

    Ok. But I know they have a reason. They always do.

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  8. RodneyTrotter - 41-45 years old - male

    Posted by RodneyTrotter Jan 1st, 2013 at 10:26AM

    You're the only one who can help, start by tidying the house and apologising.

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  9. jssp - 41-45 years old - female

    Posted by jssp Jan 1st, 2013 at 10:25AM

    Clear it & apologize to them

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  10. Vessa - 41-45 years old - female

    Posted by Vessa Jan 1st, 2013 at 10:24AM

    Why on earth did you do such a thing?
    If I were you, I'd do some straightening up.

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  11. SmilesGoForMiles - 13-15 years old

    Reply by SmilesGoForMiles Jan 1st, 2013 at 10:24AM

    I was mad...

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  12. Vessa - 41-45 years old - female

    Reply by Vessa Jan 1st, 2013 at 10:25AM

    And your mom struck you because she was mad. You guys need a new dynamic.

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  13. queenfishdee - 22-25 years old - female

    Posted by queenfishdee Jan 1st, 2013 at 10:23AM

    Haven't you seen any 80's sitcoms? just fix it up before they arrive, dummy.

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  14. SmilesGoForMiles - 13-15 years old

    Reply by SmilesGoForMiles Jan 1st, 2013 at 10:24AM

    Not that simple...I broke most of the stuff. :(

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  15. sunnygirls2 - 26-30 years old - female

    Posted by sunnygirls2 Jan 1st, 2013 at 11:48AM

    This may sound immature, but I actually recommend getting out of the house for a night or two if there's anyone you can stay with. My dad has anger problems and I always found that if I gave him time to calm down he wouldn't be nearly as aggressive towards me. It's not ok to hit your kids. If you're really scared have you thought about contacting child services? Do you have physical evidence ie bruises?

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  16. SmilesGoForMiles - 13-15 years old

    Reply by SmilesGoForMiles Jan 1st, 2013 at 1:49PM

    I try and cover bruises...but I have them. :(

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  17. Staley - 56-60 years old - female

    Posted by Staley Jan 1st, 2013 at 10:33AM

    Are you only scared you'll get hurt? Aren't you feeling at least a little bit bad about trashing the house? That's why people on here have suggested you tidy it up as best you can. That will show your parents that you have a conscience and that you are worthy of respect because you are showing maturity. They will be more forgiving then if you show remorse by trying to fix things and they will probably be more willing to accept your apology. Just being scared of being hit worries me, because you need to realise that what you do has consequences.

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  18. SmilesGoForMiles - 13-15 years old

    Reply by SmilesGoForMiles Jan 1st, 2013 at 10:37AM

    Maybe a little? :(

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  19. Staley - 56-60 years old - female

    Reply by Staley Jan 1st, 2013 at 10:39AM

    You give a little, they'll give a little. ok? :-)

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  20. RUIN - 18-21 years old - male

    Posted by RUIN Jan 1st, 2013 at 10:25AM

    ill pray for you xP

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  21. JamesHet - 31-35 years old

    Posted by JamesHet Jan 1st, 2013 at 10:24AM

    Clean the house.

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