Can someone say they love you as their boyfriend or girlfriend yet never do any of the things you like doing?

Why not? It's been nine years now, and she still hasn't left.

redwirenut is right. he may love you but are you happy? you may want to move on dear. narcissists are hard to love, you deserve more.

Just because they don't like the same things you do, doesn't mean that they don't love you. Their unwillingness to compromise means that they are selfish, and that they don't love you enough.

my happiness is precious ; I would not want to be with someone who makes me unhappy because they don't care for me. just as well my sweet helmsman knows what I love and he loves it too............kashmiri dreaming

Just as everyone says....someone can say that....it's whether they mean it or not that matters and in my opinion if they really love you, then they will at least try some of the things you like doing as long as what you like doing isn't of extreme danger to you or them. But one of the ways you know someone really loves you is if they at least try things you like doing with you just because they care so much about you not liking it becomes secondary if it means spending time with you and making you happy in some way or the other.....that is all

mmm,i think that if you love someone you would usually want to share in their enjoyment of the stuff they like,whilst being careful not to be over bearing.things like going out to the restaurant or movies are things that you really SHOULD do together regularly.being in a relationship is about being together,its also about admiration & respect & if they think you never have any good plans or idea's or dont like doing things with you then whats the point of being with them,we need to find someone who deserves us i think!

sure, they'll say whatever they think you want to hear. But not all of them...there are some genuinely honest ones who will actually listen to you, and respond to what you said...it's really rare...I am so BLeSSed to have one!

people can still love you, well i dont know about you personally, even if they dont do what you like.
love isnt about enjoying the same things, love is about the person, do you do everything they like?
cinderalla and that prince fell in love and the only thing they had in common was a stupid slipper.

They can say it, but they don;t mean it then

They can say it, but it don't make it true.

Completely selfish people can love too...they're just lousy at it.

Yes, but it just shows how selfish and uncaring they are.

because your "ideas are never any good"?

NO WAY.
that person HAS NO LOVE for you, or whoever that is directed at... move on.

move away fro that JERK.

a JOKE from online:

Breaking up is always hard to do, isn't it?
I broke up.
I recently broke up from my little honey bunny.
I was distraught. I thought I was going insane.

I lost all this weight, got all skinny.


My friends were like, 'You look fabulous!'

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Well, what if you told them that you didn't want to go out with them any more?