Well making sure there is a freshly brewed pot of coffee on the go when she wakes up is a good start.
Jesus says:<br />
« ... The husband is to be the head, but not the despot, of the wife, of the children and of the servants, ... But woe also to those fathers who fail in their duties, who are blind and deaf to the needs and faults of the members of their families, who are the cause of scandal or grief for it, who stoop to arrange worthless marriages by compromise, in order to enter into an alliance with rich powerful families, without considering that matrimony is intended, besides procreation, for the elevation and comfort of man and woman; it is a duty, a ministry, not a bargain, it is not sorrow, it is not deba<x>sement of either husband or wife. It is love, not hatred. The head of the family, therefore, must be just without excessive hardness or pretensions and without excessive compliance and weakness. But if you had to choose between the former excess and the latter, pick the latter, because God, with regard to it, may say to you: “Why were you so good?” and will not condemn you, because excess in kindness is already a punishment for man through the overbearing action which other people take the liberty of performing against good persons; whereas He would always reproach you for your hardness, which is lack of love for your closest neighbour.» ...<br />
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Have you asked your husband what his views are on being a husband? Sometimes people have different expectations of one another but never express them to the other. How can your spouse live up to your expectations if they arent aware of them to begin with? Sit and talk with your husband about this!
Having your expressed to him what you want from him as a husband?
Ideally, you should be equal partners and each responsible equally to ensure the relationship is the best it can be.<br />
friendhip, trust, compromise,openess, communication, passion, security, honesty- work on them together!
Gee, there must be thousands of ways a man can be a good husband. My Dad was a rock of reliability and considerate to my Mom, who was supportive and appreciative towards him as well. My husband is the same, I try to give him his recognition as well.
to always be wrong first?
To be the one who gets screwed, but not do any screwing whatsoever. According to how most marriages turn out.
A home needs a head and can not function with two Generals. By Gods default the husband is this General So it means that it is his job to lay down his life for his family. It is his job to love, protect, and provide for his family. He may at times have to discipline his wife and children but this needs to be done in love towards correcting poor behavior and yet when he is at fault he needs to be the first to pull down his own pants and request his wife to administrator the belt to him. The husband is in charge but not the boss. <br />
Dusty & Debbie Cook
In marriage or after marriage?<br />
If it is during marriage..he is not yet a husband..he is still bride groom...If after marriage it depends on the strength of wife or husband...If wife is dominating he will be hen pecked husband..and he will be confined to kitchen too. If he is dominant she may be humiliated. If both love each other equally their marriage life will be lovely.
To keep that spot on the couch warm....
They rarely get fleas and they can fix about everything. And if you find the right one..they kiss really well..and make the coffee. You don't need one sweetie..they are just wonderful when you find the right person..
AAhhh..then you have the wrong one...
making his wife happy
The husband's role is not just to love you til death do you part, but he is also the protector and the provider. It is his responsibility that there be food on the table and that his family be safe and secure from danger.
share you ur life and make a princess of you!<br /><br />
Yet most men here seem to take of her her own life and make a maiden of her! <br /><br />
I hate this formula! Yet unfortunately it is very common!
If you're made a princess, then shouldn't he be made a prince? I don't get why one has to become royalty, whilst the other just makes it so with nothing in return.
he is already and only a prince when makes of me his own princess if you really could get my point! :)
If I've learnt anything from awful American sitcoms, it's to be stupid and do stupid things and say stupid things and expect the wife to put up with it.
to roll off of you after he is done is what most men think am i correct?
Be the leader and make the big decisions.