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Thank-You for your answers...to those with the open minds. I just want to clarify within my anger that Vanilla relationships are based on Psychological Issues just the same as a M/s relationship! If not MORE!...oh, and thats a Fact!:)
jigsawgirl jigsawgirl 26-30, F 13 Answers Jun 7, 2011

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A true Master/Slave relationship is ba<x>sed on love. Only a Master who loves his slave can give her what she needs, and only a slave who loves her Master, can truly sacrifice what she needs for his needs, but won't have to because he loves her.

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wow, i hope there can be love in that sort of relationship because i know from my perspective, i need to love someone to maintain a relationship anyway, and although i have yet to experience a true m/s relationship, i know i will love her, and she will have to love me enough to want to give me her attention. i think any thing other than a experimental experience would have to be a thing of love. hopeless romantic me

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Yes we do Love.... It all depends on the individual. Some do it for role play for others its a way of life. For me, its who I'm. I give love and desire the same from my submissive mate. From a female dominate point of view, it is hard to find a mate that is truly submissive. Most are seeking their fancies fulfilled. That maybe why there is no real intimate connection. Just my thoughts......

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Of those with a narrow mind, this is a question beyond your thinking capability and you shoould not answer the question..<br />
D/S or Master/Slave relationships are ba<x>sed on love. The Master or Dom does not have to be a man, but a strong woman and the sub or slave is a submissive person, male or female. <br />
It is an intimate lifestyle to many. <br />
To some it can be just an occationl roleplay.<br />
I hope this answers your question.

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All good D/s relationships are ba<x>sed on love. It can be intimate or it can be a lifestyle.

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I have friends like that and it was hard for me to understand it but I have been friends with them a long time and definately both...it depends on the individuals. Personally I could'nt even have it as a lifestyle, let alone an intimate relationship. There are psycological issues that cause people to live like that - fact. But I spose we all have our issues.

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Issues? You're ignorant. How can you spit 'Facts', When you KNOW NOTHING? I feel Vanilla relationships are issued. AND UNLESS YOU HAVE BEEN THERE YOU HAVE NO IDEA!

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Oh, absolutely! I've known D/s couples who were deeply in love.<br />
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HOWEVER....<br />
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The Dominant has always been a very giving person.<br />
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If the D just takes and the s just gives... there is no love there.

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Wanna be my master

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People are in vanilla relationships due to psychological issues! How judgmental and hypocritical to say that about the lifestyle. We are not the ones in abusive relationships that are getting black eyes and broken bones! Love does exist and can whether unconventional or not. Have been in the lifestyle for 8 yeats and masters can be very caring. Ive been there.

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For some of the other posters Master and Dominant are not synonymous. Neither is better than the other but there is a different level of intensity between the two.<br />
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Imo, love between Master and slave is possible. However, which kind of love is present is the key. <br />
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Romantic love and/or the desire for it presents obstacles in which TPE ownership is the goal. Romantic love is often conditional, i.e. "I love you and always will unless _______". <br />
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The Agape love that can happen, and grow deeper than romantic love, in a Master/slave dynamic offers no such obstacles.

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