Can two insecure, emotional people build a strong and lasting relationship that can stand on its own?
11 Answers to "Can two insecure, emotional people build a strong and lasting relationship that can stand on its own?"
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ummm insecurity can be hard to deal with
as my ex step mom said only one person is allowed to be crazy at one time
I'm not calling insecurity crazy, I'm just saying one person needs to be stronger in the other in my book to balance things outLike (3)
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They can but not without a lot of work and probably counseling.
They'd probably be more comforted in finding a kindred spirit but on the other hand, if neither of them is stable, then they can't really be the example or "rock" for the other. It's like trying to prevent a tornado from tearing everything up by putting another tornado in its path - just creates more destruction.Like (3)
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my wife and I have been together 6 years and getting stronger all the time. evidence to the affirmative
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I would have both partners work on their individual insecurities and fears before engaging in a healthy full-on relationship. Insecurities breed doubts and anxiety when couples are separated and even when they're together. Too emotional people can butt heads and cause words to be said that can never be taken back. I think counseling and a commitment to working on individual and couple issues is paramount to keeping a relationship like this, healthy and flourishing.
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Anything is possible with love. I say yes.
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If they are both real to each other, than Yes they can. I know couples that started out that way. They took it slow. Started out as just friends. Let that friendship grow. People said they would Never Last but this year is their 32nd year together and they have been Married for 28 years they are happier than ever and love each other as much as to people can. By the way most of the people who said they would last back then are Divorced and re- married now. I keep talking to them. Telling them to go slow. To this day we are the best of Friends. So yes if they become friends then lovers .
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Yes if you lock yourselves in a box
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Yes, if they agree that somethings do not matter that much to them.
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I seen this happen, the children bully them because they can.
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At best, perhaps a co-dependent one with the illusion of a strong foundation.
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Posted by lmw1985 Jan 23rd, 2013 at 1:05PM
It would be very delicate but I believe it can be done. Two insecure people are likely to see qualities in each other that their partner doesn't see in themselves, so they could compliment each other in that way and thus build up each other's confidence.
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