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,,,can u help me?

i felt so lonely and alone coz i am separated with my husband for almost 3yrs....can u give some suggestions to make me happy????
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think outside people and develop a hobby or interest which will take up some of your time

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Volunteer at a shelter or children's hospital (read stories to the kids) Nothing removes depression quicker than service to others
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Posted Nov 8th, 2009 at 4:54AM
Hey there,i suppose its not easy for you,but hey its been almost 3yrs since your separation-have you got any close friends that you hang out with?do you go out at all? Listen to your favourite music that makes you happy..what are you good at? Mail me and answer my questions,hope to hear from you soon! Tyler27
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Posted Nov 8th, 2009 at 5:14AM
Go on youtube and get some quotes from stoicism and buddha
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Posted Nov 8th, 2009 at 5:12AM
One best thing you can do is try to busy urself in a most intresting thing which you like a most,
Like say play ps2 or some games or read books.
Watch funny movies and try to join some club or community,
I find this is the best solution for you dear,
Practically i applied on me, try it really works,
Mayank
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Posted Nov 8th, 2009 at 5:39AM
Volunteer at an animal shelter. I can't think of a better place for hands-on therapy or mutual empathy. You'll be appreciated not only by the overworked staff but by the animals in residence too.
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Posted Nov 8th, 2009 at 4:57AM
happiness is not a Recipe and it can't be given through advices .. it just happen and and you have to be ready for it!!
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Posted Nov 8th, 2009 at 4:56AM
Do you mean you were married for three years, or you have been separated for three years and still can't seem to move forward?
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Posted Nov 8th, 2009 at 5:05AM
join a group for single people. not a dating one but there are ones for singles that just want to hang out and do things as a group so that their not alone. give it a try.
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Posted Nov 8th, 2009 at 4:52AM
Try to keep yourself busy and stay positive. Do things you've always wanted to. And surround yourself with people you feel comfortable with. Get out as often as you can. I think it's the best way to move on.
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Posted Nov 8th, 2009 at 4:59AM
You start meeting new people.Intially for just hanging out.Once you mingle with people,you will spend your creative energy in trying to understand your new friends.Then you will be occupied doing new things.Surely you will be in good company.Later you slowly find good one amongst them and start seeing out.One separation isnt the end of the world.You might find a new life with a good guy.
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Posted Nov 8th, 2009 at 4:57AM
a little strange might help.....
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Posted Nov 8th, 2009 at 3:00PM
Buy a puppy take them for a walk its a good way to meet new people
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