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Can you be inlove with two diff person at the same time?

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I think it's certainly possible to think you are, but if you were to look at the true definition of love you can't fully be in love with 2 people as you can only give yourself and your feelings 100% to one person. Think it possible to be 'in lust' with more than one person and there can be a very fine line between love and infatuation at times.
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Posted Sep 29th, 2009 at 1:25PM
i dont see why not but you should make sure you know the difference between love and infatuation...just because your heart leaps when you see him/her doesnt mean its love love is when you feel totally comfortable with that person
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Posted Sep 29th, 2009 at 1:35PM
I am having a headache now.
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Posted Sep 29th, 2009 at 1:49PM
romantic i want to be with you forever kind of love. Sure but it is way to complicated. You will love them a little differently and you will have to choose between them. If you truely love them you want the best for them and if you are not or the situation is not than you have to let them go and you must go your way. Difficult but the way life really is.
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Posted Sep 29th, 2009 at 1:19PM
You know how i feel about this question Izzy!
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Posted Sep 29th, 2009 at 1:23PM
why not?
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Posted Sep 29th, 2009 at 1:24PM
I love three people at the same time; me, myself and I.
So if I would love two other people that makes nine.
Complicated; isn't it?
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Posted Sep 29th, 2009 at 1:23PM
You can but that does not make it right!
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Posted Sep 29th, 2009 at 1:23PM
I have never been 'in love ' with 2 people, but yes I think it can happen. after watching shows like the bachelor... in the end he always falls for both girls.. so yeah.. I think u could
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Posted Sep 29th, 2009 at 1:25PM
If you can handle it... It has been done.
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Posted Sep 29th, 2009 at 1:26PM
You should love everyone but that romantic love should be focused on one person it is called monogomy! You love one intamately and others like brothers and sisters! Without a hint of lust! Not only will you hurt others but you will end up getting hurt as well! You cannot truely know how to love until you Love God with all of your heart all of your soul and all of your strength putting anyone else above him is Idolatry!
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Posted Sep 29th, 2009 at 1:37PM
i think so ... love can't just be in one way, cuz insside u there s many things that u might finde it in more than one person.
thats what i think
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Posted Sep 29th, 2009 at 1:43PM
not real love.
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Posted Sep 29th, 2009 at 1:49PM
I think you can be in lust with two different people at once. When you're madly in love with someone, they consume your thoughts and I would think there wouldn't be room in your head for anyone else, at least that's been the case with me.
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Posted Sep 29th, 2009 at 1:51PM
Yes but it can not grow into something real that will last until you pick one or the other, and then only that one will grow.
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Posted Sep 29th, 2009 at 1:52PM
Maybe if both personalities are polar opposites and combined they make your perfect man/woman .
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Posted Sep 29th, 2009 at 1:57PM
I wouldnt wish this affliction on my worst enemy!
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Posted Sep 29th, 2009 at 2:07PM
been there. done that. it's a terrible position to be in.
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Posted Sep 29th, 2009 at 2:19PM
Love cant be shared with two different persons.. if so, then u r not in love.. it must be a infatuation or lust or something related to that..

its a feeling that u got for only one... it may turn into another person, when u find a another 1 to comfort with.. the moment u started thinking about the second love is the moment u lose the first one..

its u decide to be in 1 or 2.. 1 & 2 at same time is not love..
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Posted Sep 29th, 2009 at 4:52PM
I think, for what it's worth, you can--but maybe about having different types of love... one can be caring, respectful like for a parent, sibling or a child.. whilst the other is soul-mate love... love doesn't always follow the rules and nobody can tell you how to feel or what 'label' to give it.. can see why the French have so many different words for 'love'!!
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