Forgive, yes. Forget, no.
I completely forget that the person lied to me.<br />
I only realize it when the person lies again.<br />
I wish I had better memory.
If you held negative energy for everyone that lied to you, you would have one heavy @$$ load to haul around with you. Let it go, it frees you not the liar. Learn, from it, but don't harbor ill will.
Yes but i wont forget. Forgiveness is not for them to feel better but its for you to feel better. You give the person who hurt you the power when you remain upset but take back the power when you forgive.
I wouldn't myself to be honest, I was married for 12 years to a lier, am now with a woman that I trust a hell of a lot :)
If he was the one who tell u the truth forgive him but that depends on the person but you must know that your relation ship with that person will never be the same ...
It depends on the lie, usually I can forgive them, but that doesn't mean I'll trust them again.
It depends on the lie.<br />
Little white lie..."Do these jeans make my rear end look good?" white lie (especially if romantically involved) "Yes, very nice."<br />
Yes, I would forgive, although we should just not ask.<br />
Big tall honker lie:<br />
If it causes pain or fractures trust. No, and I would not trust this person, slowly removing them from my life, at least my true inner circle.
Yes - but only if they are important enough to me that I will look beyond the hurt.
Yes, but it will be more difficult to trust them in the future.
Yes. Once I understand why they were against me and why that changed.