I'd say that love in itself is unselfish. So really, that's the only way. You can love someone and then be selfish to boot, but the selfishness doesn't describe the love....if you see what I mean. It's a separate thing, and it can't be contaminated that way.
Nop..there is always some hope that you would be loved back
True love IS selfless
I can love unselfishly. I am not a selfish lover, or a selfish kind of friend.