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Can you love someone after only knowing them 1 month?

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    maxxcrash - 31-35 years old - male

    Posted by maxxcrash Aug 3rd, 2009 at 12:35AM

    Yes! In science they have proven that when people fall in love their bodies and brains release different chemicals that influence how you feel about a person. In all actuality love is a chemical reaction in your body so people really don’t choose who they fall in love with they just do. That’s why you have groups like “I loved some one who didn’t love me”, “I think I’m bisexual”, “I married a cheater” and son on. This is why you see people together and think that they don’t make a likely match. Has anyone really made a conscious decision with whom they fall in love with? No, they just fall in love.

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14 Answers to "Can you love someone after only knowing them 1 month?"

  1. usmcwifey021308 - 22-25 years old - female

    Posted by usmcwifey021308 Jul 30th, 2009 at 10:56AM

    I feel that there is no timeline for love. Because once you get to know a person feelings grow so if you think that you love that person let them know and see where you end up. Good luck!

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  2. TheGoldenBear - 36-40 years old

    Posted by TheGoldenBear Jul 30th, 2009 at 10:56AM

    Yes...it doesn't take long when you know.

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  3. WaywardYak - 22-25 years old - male

    Posted by WaywardYak Jul 30th, 2009 at 9:45AM

    Truly? I would say no. It takes longer than a month to really know someone properly. If you love someone before you could possibly know them properly, you're in love with who you think they are, not who they really are. Doesn't necessarily mean you won't still love them later on down the track of course...

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  4. lantori - 22-25 years old

    Posted by lantori Jul 6th, 2012 at 10:11PM

    Well I think I'm in love and its only been three almost four weeks and I really do love him and he told me first but we scared cuz we keep waitin for the other to take the next step so we said we are going to slow it down a bit so no one will get hurt do u think that's a good thing and what does slow it down mean?

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  5. finestkisses - 61-65 years old - male

    Posted by finestkisses Jul 30th, 2009 at 1:02PM

    Yes, absolutely! I feel that love is the only way we actually connect with others. Love expresses itself in many ways, including romance and erotic love as well as friendship. I think that love is the recognition that we really are all connected on the deeper (perhaps spiritual?) level

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  6. lifegirl - 31-35 years old - female

    Posted by lifegirl Jul 30th, 2009 at 11:31AM

    you can love someone even after 3 seconds

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  7. londongothgirl - 26-30 years old - female

    Posted by londongothgirl Jul 30th, 2009 at 10:54AM

    Yes I knew I was in Love after one month.

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  8. Channelle1985 - 22-25 years old - female

    Posted by Channelle1985 Jul 30th, 2009 at 10:26AM

    no.. only because in one month.. u really don't know the person.. so u can't love them if u don't know who they are.. wehn u love someone u fall in love with who they are no what they appear to be.. so make sure u know that person.. the real them.. n not the person they pretend to be to get u to like them.. so u might be in lust.. not love just yet..

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  9. shuttermagic - 26-30 years old - female

    Posted by shuttermagic Jul 30th, 2009 at 9:35AM

    Yes I think its possible at first sight so ya(doesn't mean it will last). I knew my boyfriend about 4 months before we started dating. Once we were getting to know each other more it was fast like a few weeks when we knew. And yes we both believe we are soul mates. So maybe that goes with it.

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  10. holysoul - 22-25 years old - female

    Posted by holysoul Jul 30th, 2009 at 9:24AM

    we can love someone at the first sight...
    I thing a month will be sufficient

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  11. unicorn59 - 46-50 years old - female

    Posted by unicorn59 Jul 30th, 2009 at 9:18AM

    At your age, it's more likely to be lust, and fantasy....not true love.

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  12. flinttoid01 - 36-40 years old

    Posted by flinttoid01 Jul 30th, 2009 at 9:08AM

    There is no time limit on love, However lust and love can often be confused!!

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  13. Nixstix - 36-40 years old - female

    Posted by Nixstix Jul 30th, 2009 at 9:04AM

    In my opinion NO CAN DO ... there is so much more Love than 1 month of lust and fun times....

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