The love must be established first. You can then learn that you can't trust them. It is painful situation to be in, believe me.
I think you can fall in love then lose trust, therefore love someone you can no longer trust.
Yes. I know I can.<br />
I love my mother, but there are ways in which I don't trust her. I can't tell her many things because she doesn't respect privacy. But I love her. <br />
I can't trust my son with certain things. He is autistic, and in his case that means he doesn't understand certain things. There is very little I could "trust" him with.<br />
I love a man that is a narcissist. Can I trust him? No way. I can't be with him or really have him as part of my life either. But I love him. I love the parts of him that are dear to me. It has little to do with trust.<br />
The idea of being able to open up and trust someone in that way is different, in my mind. There are people that I can open up to or trust that I don't necessarily love. In the same way, there are people that are not trustworthy, but that I love. Being able to open up to someone, in my opinion, is more about how that person loves me more than about how I love him. The ones that I can trust and can really be myself with would be the ones who love me. Incidentally, I would probably love or come to love them because of that. But that isn't a requirement for me to love.
it's impossible...my boyfriend told me last night he loved me but didn't trust me. we now won't even have sex. furthermore, he told someone else i'm a habitual liar and he believes nothing that comes out of my mouth. crazy thing is I have never lied to him. last night I tried to OD on pills and when I woke up this morning I lost it...when you have someone who say they love u but don't trust you it means that they will soon cheat and then leave you.
i think i love my bf who i dont trust and im suspicious of i say i think i love him because i need to feel that maybe things will change or maybe im wrong i always believe because i cant imagine someone just lying to my face but inside me tells me that i have something to fear but i wonder why cant i let go its like my heart wants everything that he promised but my mind just doesnt believe yet its hard to let go
For me they both go hand in hand. When one is gone the other will follow.
I think eventually anger & frustration would rule out & the loving feelings would be tarnished for good.
My husband had done things that betrayed my trust, causing me to lose it in him. I am currently still in love with him, and he is working to rebuild it. ba<x>sed on my own experience, I would say you could love someone you could not trust. However, it is important to get "beyond" the trust issue because it could eventually cause the relationship to break down with suspicious thoughts. If the trust does not return, the love will eventually whither and die.
They are two very different things.<br />
Love is an ephemeral feeling, largely indefinable.<br />
Trust is ba<x>sed on observed behaviour and is a solid definable fact.<br />
A manipulative person will sometimes trot out the "If you loved me you would trust me" line, which is bullshit. They are two very different things, yet inter related. If you lose trust in someone you love, then the love will progressively wither and die.<br />
Tread your own path.
You can have feelings for them, but it all depends upon what you consider love. If you lose your trust for someone you love, then at least part of your love goes with the disillusionment.
i'd say yes... i love my bf but i cant trust him in terms of fidelity aspect.....
yes... I fully love my kids, but I don't always trust them.
Trust can be lost, love for someone is hard to get rid of. took me three months and many bottles of liqour a couple dozen packs of cigarettes, and drugs... This was just to be kind of okay with losing the person I loved.
I couldn't, I have to be able to trust them.