NO! NO! NO! I had a really good female friend up till September last year. I loved her from the first day I saw her and we were kinda close. She kept telling me "I'm not ready for boyfriends or relationships" and then went and found a guy dated him and told me that she really loves this guy. The ***** betrayed me and lied to me. My feelings for her have expired forever I never want to see her or speak to her again!

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I have known her for 12 years and we were friends, I wanted more and she said so did she....we were close. I even helped her out a lot. She said I treated her better then anyone has ever in her life. She is now with someone else and with his kid, been 3 years but I cannot let go I do not know why!! :(

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Listen, I know how you feel I really do. It's not easy to let go though since you've known her for 12 yrs. I can understand where you're coming from on this one. Don't worry.

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Flowers, poems, money, shopped for her, gifts, and more....

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Yep I did the exact same as you (except the poems). She had very rigid rules one of them was I couldn't make complimentary remarks to her as a friend (like telling her that she looked lovely or sexy) she discouraged that. I'm glad I'm out of that circle. I've got my peace of mind back after nearly 4 months plus my self confidence is flooding back. Save yourself from this heartache please, don't let it destroy you like it did to me. PM me if necessary. Goodnight.

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Not ever. Once someone hurts me they're done.

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Totally 100% agree with you there.

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never, it can hurt you more, anyway, you can track your ex by HelloSpy to stop loving your Ex

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The couple exes that hurt me ... no I couldn't stay friends with them. The one I hurt ... I wish we would have, but he moved far far away, and then called my new boyfriends house like it wasn't inappropriate at all so I asked him never to call there again, and then we lost touch.

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I feel u should cut off all ur exs. They are exs for a reason.

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Why would you want to?

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Still love her....foolishly yes but still love her.

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It's not easy is it? I know I got very depressed, extremely low plus I lost all my self confidence and felt so hurt inside because of the hurt she put me through. Never again!

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That is with me too, she destroyed any self confidence I had...lied and hurt me really bad. And even now I fight to be friends and do not know why...I have to see her every day just about since I helped her get a job where I work. Maybe "i am just plain stupid!!

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Hey look, come on now don't be hard on yourself .... You're not stupid you're a human person who has feelings which have been hurt by this woman. I feel for you. It's the WORST feeling in the world ever when someone hurts you. It does take time but you will get over this. I couldn't accept that my friend who I had very very strong feelings kept rejecting me and when she found a man I just couldn't and didn't want to accept it.

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I saw a quote that summed it up nicely for me,<br />
"Yeah, sure, you just shat all over me and my entire life, of course we should still be friends."~Said No One Ever

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In that case no .

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HELLNO

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