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Can you tell me why a boy would tell me that he loved me, and then break-up with me? He told me on Tues. he loved me. &l

My BF just broke up with me. Before he was like: "I loved you, but I don't anymore." thast how it started. And then it happened. But he had just told me on Tuesday that he loved me.. So whats going on?

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15 Answers to "Can you tell me why a boy would tell me that he loved me, and then break-up with me? He told me on Tues. he loved me. &l"

  1. Mbunny456 - 18-21 years old - female

    Posted by Mbunny456 Mar 17th, 2013 at 7:01PM

    He probably still loves you he is just might not want a girlfriend or maybe he just doesn't understand love yet

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  2. kamiru - 18-21 years old - female

    Posted by kamiru Mar 17th, 2013 at 7:00PM

    maybe he fell out of love it's natural, sometimes we feel that we're inlove then one day we'll realize we're not

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  3. fakeola - 26-30 years old - male

    Posted by fakeola Mar 17th, 2013 at 6:57PM

    There is a lot of societal pressure from women onto men to express 'love'.

    Its such an ill defined, potentially non-existent (in absolute terms at least) concept that you should only expect confused behaviour as a result.

    You could have simply terrified him away with pressure to the word... young girls in particular have a desire for it to be expressed, presumably out of competition or expectations rather than anything substantive. I've found this utterly terrifying more than once...

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  4. JustKeepSwimming1234 - female

    Reply by JustKeepSwimming1234 Mar 17th, 2013 at 7:00PM

    He said it first, I'm just confused now..

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  5. fakeola - 26-30 years old - male

    Reply by fakeola Mar 17th, 2013 at 7:20PM

    i guess it works the same both ways. sorry i don't have any silver bullets for you. XD

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  6. secto - 22-25 years old - male

    Posted by secto Mar 17th, 2013 at 6:56PM

    He might not be used to the feelings that go along with it. Relying on someone else, thinking about one another, lack of individual thoughts.

    Relationships are cumbersome to the eternally isolated.

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  7. Vessa - 41-45 years old - female

    Posted by Vessa Mar 17th, 2013 at 6:56PM

    He is immature.

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  8. Indie42 - 46-50 years old - female

    Posted by Indie42 Mar 17th, 2013 at 6:56PM

    He's playing you. Obviously you need to concentrate more on growing up than having a boyfriend. Get more serious about your education and finding out who you are before looking for another one.

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  9. Galaxy8499 - 13-15 years old - female

    Posted by Galaxy8499 Mar 17th, 2013 at 6:55PM

    Too young

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  10. GoldButterfly - 16-17 years old - female

    Posted by GoldButterfly Mar 17th, 2013 at 6:54PM

    Love can be a fickle thing when in youth.

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  11. missholley - 46-50 years old - female

    Posted by missholley Mar 17th, 2013 at 6:54PM

    He is just a boy. Someday he will turn into a man...

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  12. missmeganxoxo - 22-25 years old - female

    Posted by missmeganxoxo Mar 17th, 2013 at 6:54PM

    probably to see if you would have sex with him

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  13. fordie35 - 31-35 years old - male

    Posted by fordie35 Mar 17th, 2013 at 6:54PM

    I hope you didnt sleep with him? if not then he scared himself by saying it

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  14. JustKeepSwimming1234 - female

    Reply by JustKeepSwimming1234 Mar 17th, 2013 at 6:56PM

    No, no. I'm 16, I plan on doing something with my life.

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  15. fordie35 - male

    Reply by fordie35 Mar 17th, 2013 at 7:00PM

    Well good for you, you dont need boys, not now. You sound very sensible, word of warning, most boys are after one thing. they lie to get you in to bed. I know, i used to be one. Exactly what i will tell my daughter! Just be careful ok

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  16. Sassyone1 - 31-35 years old - female

    Posted by Sassyone1 Mar 17th, 2013 at 6:54PM

    That's the Drill. Lol Guess you will learn not to put out. :) Your to young to be doing that anyway.

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  17. NeutralKing - 18-21 years old - male

    Posted by NeutralKing Mar 17th, 2013 at 6:53PM

    "Boy" being the key word. He's too young to really love anyone so you shouldn't take it personally. I was the same way when I was younger and it's a bad trait almost every child has. So don't blame yourself or him for it.

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  18. JustKeepSwimming1234 - female

    Reply by JustKeepSwimming1234 Mar 17th, 2013 at 6:55PM

    Thanks. Really, I needed that. I just don't understand it.

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  19. EiPerkele - 18-21 years old - male

    Posted by EiPerkele Mar 17th, 2013 at 6:52PM

    ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°) Seems like you got goofed by him. ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)

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  20. sarcazoid - 36-40 years old

    Posted by sarcazoid Mar 17th, 2013 at 6:52PM

    Tell him to quit acting like a teenager!

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  21. JustKeepSwimming1234 - female

    Reply by JustKeepSwimming1234 Mar 17th, 2013 at 6:59PM

    We are teenagers.... :/

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  22. sarcazoid

    Reply by sarcazoid Mar 17th, 2013 at 7:02PM

    O. Where there you go

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