I could forgive almost anything but cheating too. I think that if I stayed with a man who cheated on me I would always think of him with her in bed and would never quite get over it. It also depends on the person, if you have a lot in common and have been together for many years it might be okay but it would always be there in the back of your mind. I left my second husband for this reason. It is betrayal and the trust is broken. I suppose if the two in question worked hard at it, it might be okay, I'm just saying what I would do and have done.

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One way of looking at it is she still comes home to you, so maybe the relationship is worth saving, maybe changing to suit each other's needs.

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Do you still value the relationship? If so, it is worth going to counseling to understand the reasons why. An affair is usually the symptom of an underlying issue . . . Is there a problem in the relationship that the two of you can work on and solve? Is she going through a depressive period in her life that led to her affair?<br />
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I don't think it is possible to forgive and move on until you understand why it happened and can fix the problem. Most marriages are worth a few counseling sessions . . . .divorce is very costly.

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