Can/should I text a girl I'm interested in. But has a boyfriend, and be just friends for now?
12 Answers to "Can/should I text a girl I'm interested in. But has a boyfriend, and be just friends for now?"
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stop texting my girlfriend, yo!
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lol
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sure you should! they aren't married. Anyone un-married is fair game
while I'm here, I'll reiterate, a resounding YES!Like (2)
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BULL! there can still be love there and you can still hurt someone. marriage is a piece of paper, nothing more. feelings develop before marriage usually.Like (1)
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marriage is a sign of commitment. if she can be wooed away now, what do you think will happen in the future? oh, would that hurt more? perhaps you should close you mouth and open you ears, perhaps you'd learn something
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The word for now means you are into this girl, so having a bf who she is attached to means it is like you have a tiny little cheese in your fingers and a mouse so the mouse is like tempted to run over the cheese on your finger to eat fast, think of it that way you are like into this girl and say be friend for now. No way you will be friend with her only as she will notice your looks, and the way you stare at as even if you only text her your brain will do the show naughty words and will try to get into her, sorry the answer no for she got a bf that will be so sad she will lose her man cos of a thing like that no matter how you try to be only friend through text, things can twist into other or more activity.
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thanks, good points.
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you ARE interfering, if you are ok with doing that and possibly hurting someone then keep doing it!
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good point, no thanks.
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Can you ? yes you can
should you ? no you shuldnt she is in a relation right now, but who know's maybe it wont work out.Like (2)
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well... a good relationship always starts out as friends....so .....go be her friend...u just never know what might happen?
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damn everyone seems to think you can't go from friends to more than friends though.
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well, in my experience, being a friend is a must. I mean, if you wouldn't wanna be their friend, why would u want to be their lover? Plus, I'm the type that believes in taking things slow= friends first.
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You'll come across as desperate if you reach out to this girl right now for 'friendship'. She's going to see right through you, your feelings for her will be very obvious to her. I think you should be happy that she appears to be content right now in her relationship with her boyfriend. Things can change, though, as soon as tomorrow. You can always let her know your feelings, and she can keep them on the back burner when or if she breaks up with her boyfriend, but you never know; she might have her heart set on someone other than you, in that case. If you're okay with just being friends and won't get jealous when she talks about her boyfriend, then I guess it could work out. But be prepared; alot of her conversations might be all about him.
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good points. thanks
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You're welcome. I'm sure you will find the perfect girl for you. Don't discount someone else because she doesn't fit this other girl's image. You might just find out that someone unexpected is the perfect match for you. Good luck. I happen to think that things happen, or don't happen, for a reason.
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one thing I have found is if a girl has a bunch of guys sh e calls friends
the term **** and ***** always pop in to my head...
as O for one do not for one nano second buy that crap well there just friends!!!Like (2)
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exactly!
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it never works it happened with me and a guy and he ended the friendship because i had feelings for him :( so save yourself the heartbreak
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Don't ! The three of you will get confused ! Don't put yourself in situation like that
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thanks
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You should probably wait until she is single otherwise you will be friend-zoned and miss your chance in the future. Most of us females do not view our buddies as potential BFs.
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yeah another thing i was worried about.
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Best Answer (Chosen by Voting):
Posted by Dot11 Jun 21st, 2012 at 12:38PM
No, because you're already interested and sounds like you want to do more.
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Reply by Blurbel Jun 21st, 2012 at 1:31PM
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