compete to make them cooperate
Cooperate within your family. Compete against the world.
Well, I have seen people who compete and who hold on to all the knowledge they have as if it was an advantage. Me, I found that for me to have influence, I shared my knowledge.
Cooperation is my preference but I have no issues with competition.
but i co-operate first
except maybe on EP
Why should I cooperate when I can take? ;)