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Confession: I secretly don't like musicians. I don't understand their passion to just sing all their life and not work

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How can my views about musicians change? I just can't stand them. I think they are talented but lazy.

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    thesaint13 - 51-55 years old - male

    Posted by thesaint13 Nov 11th, 2012 at 12:01AM

    Have you ever been inspired or moved by a song. Each one of us have a natural body rhythm. The best musicians, tap into the rhythms of the most people.


    And we love you.

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  1. golden10 - 22-25 years old - female

    Reply by golden10 Nov 10th, 2012 at 11:44PM

    I love that thought!

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  2. golden10 - 22-25 years old - female

    Reply by golden10 Nov 11th, 2012 at 12:08AM

    Aww. So sweet

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22 Answers to "Confession: I secretly don't like musicians. I don't understand their passion to just sing all their life and not work"

  1. Hermey - 36-40 years old - male

    Posted by Hermey Nov 10th, 2012 at 11:32PM

    you could try to learn an instrument and then you can see how much time and hard work it takes to actually get good at one and then you might see that many are far from lazy.

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  2. golden10 - 22-25 years old - female

    Reply by golden10 Nov 10th, 2012 at 11:41PM

    Yeah I was telling this other fellow that

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  3. Dragonlovr - 22-25 years old - male

    Reply by Dragonlovr Feb 5th, 2013 at 8:47AM

    you got a good point. i play the piano. been doing so for over 20 yrs. trust me, it is hard. i want you to sight read music and play the piano at the same time. i dare ya golden10. us musicians are at a higher standard than most people no matter what the instrument it is

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  4. bijouxbroussard - 46-50 years old - female

    Posted by bijouxbroussard Nov 10th, 2012 at 11:38PM

    Many of us have had day jobs while performing or giving music lessons part-time. As was said, it also takes a lot of work to become proficient enough to play an instrument, either as a soloist, or with others. Working musicians, even on a part time basis, are not lazy.

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  5. omai - 26-30 years old - male

    Posted by omai Nov 10th, 2012 at 11:32PM

    If they can make money while doing what they enjoy screw what you think of them.

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  6. BarvoDelancy - 31-35 years old - male

    Posted by BarvoDelancy Nov 10th, 2012 at 11:45PM

    I work what is by any means a respectable 9-5 job. I chose not to pursue a career in music because it was far more work than I was prepared to put into it. Professional musicians play all the time. Touring is unbelievably demanding on the body and soul - there's a reason so many fall into drugs and alcohol. The life of a professional musician is so demanding that it's difficult to cope.

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  7. golden10 - 22-25 years old - female

    Reply by golden10 Nov 10th, 2012 at 11:45PM

    Really?

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  8. BarvoDelancy - 31-35 years old - male

    Reply by BarvoDelancy Nov 10th, 2012 at 11:46PM

    I just edited my answer to give you more detail, but yes. It's not an easy life.

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  9. travelingthinker - 26-30 years old - male

    Posted by travelingthinker Nov 10th, 2012 at 11:40PM

    While I can agree that some musicians out there are completely overrated... do you honestly believe that spending hours sometimes weeks, writing, recording, re-recording, practicing, shuffling around from place to place getting your stuff out there.

    Sending songs to different producers, sitting in media interviews (if you get to that point)... negotiating with said producers and other middlemen so you don't get jacked out of a decent amount of compensation....

    and then IF you're big enough and still have the heart for it doing all that over again for years NOT work?

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  10. mulder - 26-30 years old

    Posted by mulder Nov 10th, 2012 at 11:37PM

    Perhaps they do not understand the type of lifes everyone else has and secretly dislike you too..

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  11. golden10 - 22-25 years old - female

    Reply by golden10 Nov 10th, 2012 at 11:41PM

    What I do helps save lives. If they secretly dislike me they are evil.

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  12. HakujitsuSeiten - 18-21 years old - female

    Posted by HakujitsuSeiten Nov 10th, 2012 at 11:34PM

    musicians save my life.

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  13. saxgurl212 - 13-15 years old - female

    Posted by saxgurl212 Nov 11th, 2012 at 12:08AM

    I spend at least 5 hours a day working on my technique till I get the exact rhythm that I was looking for, then I have to put notes to it. I play saxophone and I have scar tissue on the inside of my lip that gets re-opened almost every day. It's not easy coming up with original ideas because of how much stuff has already been done.

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  14. jackblasio - 56-60 years old - male

    Posted by jackblasio Nov 10th, 2012 at 11:51PM

    They are people, too...some people have a good work ethic, some don't....the ego-maniac type musicians get on my nerves "big time!"...I refuse to work w/them ...doesn't matter how talented they may be...In your statement, you make it sound pretty bleak for musicians, we are not all the same, not all are "bums"...not all are talented, either...some are in it for the "benefits"...like with all peeps, there is a large grey area.....ok?...lol...

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  15. golden10 - 22-25 years old - female

    Reply by golden10 Nov 10th, 2012 at 11:56PM

    Ok

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  16. chimbie88 - 31-35 years old - male

    Posted by chimbie88 Nov 10th, 2012 at 11:40PM

    Learn to play music :) Do you like writers? What about painters? Sculptors? Any artist?

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  17. golden10 - 22-25 years old - female

    Reply by golden10 Nov 10th, 2012 at 11:39PM

    Yeah, if I had time...but that would probably be the only eye opener for me. For me to be in their shoes.

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  18. guitargirl23 - 26-30 years old - female

    Posted by guitargirl23 Nov 10th, 2012 at 11:33PM

    I'm not a musician but... do you like music? That music doesn't just appear... it is hard work that the band creates with creativity. They work hard to bring you what you hear on the radio. Think about it.

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  19. golden10 - 22-25 years old - female

    Reply by golden10 Nov 11th, 2012 at 12:00AM

    Music is ok

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  20. MikeWinther - 41-45 years old - male

    Posted by MikeWinther Nov 10th, 2012 at 11:33PM

    Do you sing or hum a tune too a song you like?

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  21. golden10 - 22-25 years old - female

    Reply by golden10 Nov 10th, 2012 at 11:38PM

    I can sing....I just don't want or like to sing

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  22. golden10 - 22-25 years old - female

    Reply by golden10 Nov 11th, 2012 at 12:01AM

    Sometimes...what does that supposed to mean?

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  23. cutieee9087 - 18-21 years old - female

    Posted by cutieee9087 Nov 11th, 2012 at 12:38AM

    I love music. It's gotten me through so many things in my life. I play guitar but I also go to school full time and I'm actively job hunting so I doubt I fit your stereotype.

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  24. golden10 - 22-25 years old - female

    Reply by golden10 Nov 11th, 2012 at 12:20AM

    Lmao

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  25. cutieee9087 - 18-21 years old - female

    Reply by cutieee9087 Nov 11th, 2012 at 12:41AM

    It is a stereotype because not all musicans are lazy. A lot put everything they have onto their music while others, like me have other jobs/responsibilities to take care of.

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  26. NegaDraven - 22-25 years old

    Posted by NegaDraven Nov 10th, 2012 at 11:58PM

    Touring is tough as hell, and when you're barely scraping by on cash and rushing from location to location trying to entertain people every night it can really get you. Then, there's shady managers and club owners to deal with who might try to stiff you and sometimes things won't even happen as planned and you'll have wasted time and energy for nothing. It's a hard lifestyle unless you reach Metallica level fame and let's face it - that's almost impossible. Besides, being in a band is all about hard work.

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  27. PrincessLadybug - 16-17 years old - female

    Posted by PrincessLadybug Nov 10th, 2012 at 11:49PM

    same here- I'm not really musically inclined

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  28. jamesmethod - 56-60 years old - male

    Posted by jamesmethod Nov 10th, 2012 at 11:37PM

    You must know some Unsuccessful Musicians, when I Played I didn't have to work I made Plenty of Money Playing Music. :)

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  29. golden10 - 22-25 years old - female

    Reply by golden10 Nov 10th, 2012 at 11:43PM

    Well I live in Hollywood....I come across many successful and unsuccessful musicians. I still try to understand them

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  30. DSM5 - 46-50 years old - male

    Posted by DSM5 Dec 28th, 2012 at 12:32AM

    You don't like people because you don't understand their passion as artists - how shallow!

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  31. golden10 - 22-25 years old - female

    Reply by golden10 Dec 28th, 2012 at 1:38AM

    I'm learning

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  32. DSM5 - 46-50 years old - male

    Reply by DSM5 Dec 28th, 2012 at 5:58AM

    You have redeemed yourself, in my eyes, with that reply.

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  33. hotblooded58 - 26-30 years old - male

    Posted by hotblooded58 Nov 13th, 2012 at 9:58PM

    Music is the work and it isn't easy. A lot of people have the talent but it takes something more to refine it and become a polished musician who understands music theory and the intricacies of the musical world. Some can be lazy though, just like anybody in any profession though. Musicians usually practice a ton though and they have the added pressure of performing their work in front of large audiences of people judging them publicly instead of working quietly in a cubicle. There are pros and cons just like any job, so don't knock it til' you try it.

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  34. Sandy84b - 26-30 years old - male

    Posted by Sandy84b Nov 11th, 2012 at 12:00PM

    What if singing is their profession ?

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  35. golden10 - 22-25 years old - female

    Reply by golden10 Nov 11th, 2012 at 12:39PM

    I don't understand....another talented but lazy thing....I'm trying to change

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