A lot I read over a long period on another site and EP tend to be controlling in relationships. But it seems a lot forgot its equal rights and whoever control's their partner I have found loose them. So respect each other and listen to each other. And never stop showing your affection because its like saying "cheat on me". Wrote this as so many couples tend to break up over the slightest thing. So hopefully it will remind everyone that love does not need to fade after years together. Affection proves a lot.