Uh, both a man and a woman may be in a long term affair and still be in love with their spouse, whether the affair is ongoing or has ended.
She probably had never fallen out of love with her hubby. Usually an affair happens because something is missing in a relationship. At some point, for me it was 8 years, the affair also develops into a relationship with something missing. It sometimes opens the woman's eyes to the fact she wants to work on her marriage.
Yes,she could love the fact that he stood by her with a lot of pain until she had her fill. I think she should express her love by doing something just for him long term and by all means show that she can be trusted again .
ive heard of such a thing.
Drop the instantly and I think the answer is yes.