The other answers are absolutely right! Don't label yourself, it could do more harm than good if you don't fully understand them. The fact that drugs were involved may have had a factor in what had happened and the shock after you sobered up of what you did causing the question could be making you dwell on it the way you have. You may be bi but telling your gf before you know for sure could ruin things. Be sure first. If you have any gay, lesbian, or bi friends you should talk to them and get some real answers from someone who knows you. Other than that, you could talk to anyone you trust.

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Sexuallity is not black or white. Some of it is nature some of it is down to experiences that we have. You are you, dont try to find a label. If you are unsure of your sexuallity perhaps you need to have some space alone to work it out ? Its doubtful you are gay - you still find women attractive, but you could well be bi, but as I said dont label yourself.

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Some guys are very flirtatious and can talk the pants off of just about anyone. No doubt, this guy in the car was gay and had scoped you out from the party. You should be flattered, but listen to all the previous advice.

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Great answers here. I'd just add that you should be accepting of yourself and not rush to label or judge yourself. You're having feelings that are natural for you and certainly okay.

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