Essentially as long as I'm paying them they have to be whatever I say.
Of course. And I have been. Not all girls have the advantages that some of us have. My attitude is this. Unless you are willing to pay her bills for her, then how she makes her money is none of your business. I am not judgmental and I have no patience for holier than thou types who try to cast scorn and ex-communicate girls, withdrawing fellowship from them because they are prostitutes. Further, prostitutes perform a much needed and highly desired service for men who need sex and cannot get it from their wives or girlfriends. Sex is a basic human need and hookers meet that need for men that cannot get it any other way, or that simply have the money and prefer the ease and lack of commitment that a hooker represents. Successful wealthy men have always paid for sex throughout the ages, whether by buying concubines, stocking a harem, or whatever, but working girls have always and will always exist.
I agree with you totally on this!!! `Sex-trade workers` are human beings!!! Plain and simple!!! If you want to buy sex from one of these women...be prepared to pay up!!! There is a sick and depraved `RAPE CULTURE` in North American society that devalues women, making them the playthings of `boys` who think they are `men!`
my sympathies to you Katz, that you have gotten to that point
Of course. The judgment on people who work in the s3x trade is ridiculous. From statistics and studies I have read as a legal reform advocate, many were abused children, who grew up without the same boundaries due to what was imposed on them. Rather than heal (society doesn't really even now encourage that -- denial is much more common), they act out and in this way they have some semblance of power in this area that they didn't before. <br />
It's legal in Nevada (Nye County) and in Latin countries Costa Rica and Panama, and of course in Amsterdam and I'm sure other countries that I just don't know about now.<br />
Moralizing about bodies is silly. Like George Carlin said, "why should it be illegal to sell something you can give away for free?" It's as dumb as those old laws against people of different races marrying or about the form of s3x engaged in that was unlawful in Texas but now is lawful in the USA.<br />
I think it is a mistake to think or fantasize that these people are all about s3x anyway; it might be safe to assume that due to their past traumas they are, essential, as3xual in any event.
Exactly!!! Many of these girls and women have been victims of horrific sexual abuse, physical abuse, mental illness, and addictions!!! They need our compassion and care, not our `Holier than thou` value judgements!!!
Yes, why on earth not? And I would be friends with a person, not "a hooker". I don't subscribe to the dehumanising of people through nametags.
Yes why not? As with anyone just as long as that person does not P*** me off in any way we'll be alright.
Yes!!! of course!! :D Why not!???
Why not?? ;)
To let a stranger use your body for his pleasure for money? Disgusting men that stink or don't brush their teeth--face it-some guys can't get sex any other way because they are foul. The "service" they provide can also take food out a a family's mouth because of a selfish horny man who cares more about his desires than his own family. Some of these girls would do their own grandpa for a dollar. Please-they do nothing positive for society. They are so readily available and greedy. They don't care who might be hurt by their "profession"--how about the innocent wife at home? Do they care about hurting another human being--blame the man,sure-but they are more than willing partners in his hurting his family and they don't have a conscience about it.
I would think it is safe to say you are going to lose this battle ("oldest profession" and all).
Love her, but not her profession! ;)
I have met a few, not hired. I have found they are some of the most honest and forthright individuals I have encountered. Fun too! They would make great friends.
I have met some as well...and their horrific stories of being beaten, robbed, raped, etc. just make me want to vomit!!! They are human beings as well!!!
Of course I could.
Don't think so but it never came up--I don't think I could be friends with somebody who had so little self-respect,
I am better than no one, of course, certainly.
Yes. I think so. Most hookers get into the job by needing money and cannot find a job. I understand that if you are on your own, no pimp, one can make a lot of money if one has the stomach for it. I do not have the personality to take a stinky, ugly man and bed him. I do not like most men. I am married and by a stroke of luck, I love him. I despise most men. I could never be a hooker unless I or my child was starving and I HAD to do it.
Friendship leads to sex but sex leads to..... ok i better quiet now.
yes....I would not help her with her work lol, but friends, sure. I have ******** friends that work in the club, close enough.
why not??????????people are people,and most people have attributes,i want to learn from.im 64,and every day i dont learn something new is a wasted day-------nobody is too old to learn and nobody is too young to teach------------
She might have been only a prostitute, but she had the nicest face I ever came across. We could be friends.
Yep but they're much harder and more deeply injured from past experiences than most people, so be prepared for an honest, game free friendship because in my experience they don't have time for drama.
Sure, but I would not get intimate or have intercourse with her. Ok, only, maybe, after a complete exam!
Agree to that same name as me......
I know guys that got the herpies,they cant pee properly and stuff plus I dont want to have Aids or Hepa B or any other bacteria that is hostile to my health...
I actually do have friends who were once sex workers. It would be difficult for me to be close friends with someone currently in the business, because I would worry about her (or his) personal safety. The friends I have, have told me some pretty harrowing stories.