yes because there's someone you will want to spend your life with, and someone else who is just for fun. but in the end, the former is worth it more.
It's not really an "affair" unless you're already married......call it your last fling.
What makes you think you won't have an affair after you get married? You might cool it for now, but what if you want to continue on with seeing this guy after you are married.
perhaps I am missing something but.....if one has an affair before the marriage even starts why would one even get married??? I am thinking that's a pretty good sign, one shouldn't get married but if decided they should.....one needs to decide if they can live with that knowledge and that there is a serious possibility that the fiance is gonna find out one day! then again, if one tells the fiance prior to the wedding, good chance the wedding is called of.
If you're having an affair while you're engaged, why do you even want to stay engaged?
Maybe but you will always have that hanging over your head.If you come clean the marriage plans would be over most likely.Have you stopped the affair yet?