Some guys are great at running hot and cold. I'm sorry that happened. I guess you have to be careful, especially when a guy seems to be saying things that are maybe a little too sweet too soon. Words are cheap. Some men just enjoy the pursuit and the game of romance. Others fancy themselves as Don Juans and savor the power of being able to manipulate a woman's heart. I think some guys just have a sort of conflicted relationship ADD, and they don't even know what they want. Sometimes all the sweetness is just plain old schmooze. There are quite a few schmoozers on EP.
I've had this happen many times, and I've seen friends deal with this sort of thing. Maybe this guy is going to come through, but if he doesn't, try not to take it to heart. For a lot of men, it's par for the course and isn't even personal.
Did you give up the goods? Lots of guys just lose interest after that. Honestly, that is a great way to separate the worthwhile from the worthless. If that's all they want, you are better off without them.
I think the dude has the warts. You probably want to pass on that one.
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Probably nothing. Maybe the guy was annoyed that you wouldn't sleep with him, maybe he wasn't. Some people are just a mess. On a more positive note, maybe something in his personal life needs sorting out - whatever. But 3 days is not that long. (Having said that, I would be biting my nails by now as well).
I would consider myself a very lucky woman because.....he's the kind of man who will sleep with you, take his pleasure and leave you. And how do I know that? Look at how he is behaving now!
Leave your options open for dating and don't count on that guy so much it bugs you with other guys. Ask questions that give you infomation about his daily life, like type of work, families in his life, like brother, sister, son or daughter. Where does he travel for fun, you might want to join him, a good leading question.
Different perception possibly?
Maybe it only was great in your eyes. We tend to read in to what we want and ignore the obvious if we don't want to see it
Maybe he said that just to be able to make out with you. Don't worry there are plenty of fish in the sea. You can find someone better