Some guys are great at running hot and cold. I'm sorry that happened. I guess you have to be careful, especially when a guy seems to be saying things that are maybe a little too sweet too soon. Words are cheap. Some men just enjoy the pursuit and the game of romance. Others fancy themselves as Don Juans and savor the power of being able to manipulate a woman's heart. I think some guys just have a sort of conflicted relationship ADD, and they don't even know what they want. Sometimes all the sweetness is just plain old schmooze. There are quite a few schmoozers on EP. <br />
I've had this happen many times, and I've seen friends deal with this sort of thing. Maybe this guy is going to come through, but if he doesn't, try not to take it to heart. For a lot of men, it's par for the course and isn't even personal.

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Your awesome :) thank you for all you said its what ive been wanting to hear. than, there will be others, or forget him.

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Did you give up the goods? Lots of guys just lose interest after that. Honestly, that is a great way to separate the worthwhile from the worthless. If that's all they want, you are better off without them.

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I did not, I told him i wasnt going to and he said that he was patient and he can wait. we just kissed and made out a lotttt and cuddled and fell asleep in each others arms.

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I think the dude has the warts. You probably want to pass on that one.

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hahha ummm dont know how to respond to that. lol

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Haha lol helarious

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Leave your options open for dating and don't count on that guy so much it bugs you with other guys. Ask questions that give you infomation about his daily life, like type of work, families in his life, like brother, sister, son or daughter. Where does he travel for fun, you might want to join him, a good leading question.

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we met on a dating site and hungout 2 times before our first date. we know a lot about each other. should I post the texts he sent me to make everyone see how sweet he is?? I just dont know where it all went wrong

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Maybe it only was great in your eyes. We tend to read in to what we want and ignore the obvious if we don't want to see it

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He told me that it was great and he liked me a lot and he liked kissing me. after that he said he missed me he wanted to see me again soon and everything went down hill from there. I dont know what i did wrong. He said he wanted me to be his gf and now he doesnt talk to me :'(

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Maybe he said that just to be able to make out with you. Don't worry there are plenty of fish in the sea. You can find someone better

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