my mother<br />
she is more dependent on accolades than oxygen
and then some
moving 1000 miles away has helped....a bit....lol
There are honestly so many faults in her, that I cant even take her or her behavior seriously, it is to the point where I have to laugh or ignore all together. But as far as the feeling worthless part.... the only cure for that is having others in your life that show you your true value, through actions.
Ty for BA, I am sorry I am not more help, I think everyone's experience is different with this..... but I know that when I finally knew I was truly loved, it all changed.
You will........ and may have some around you already, but you are too busy not trusting in yourself, you own self worth, that you could not possibly see it, and THAT is what has to change.
I wish you well *hugs*
Nope. Do you have one? What many things are they an EXPERT at?
Yeah, my dad *.* he's extremely INTJ and I hate him. (I'm INTP)
Sort of. But I learned to be independent and avoid that àsshole at all costs.
I hope :/
I did, he died this past December...
Yes, I refused to take sides in my parents divorce (married 47 years) and he got the last word by disowning me and disinheriting me...just to name one event...If you ever disagreed with him you were considered a piece of ****! Everything was about him.
No, I see him for what he was...I'm always striving to be a better person. I loved him in spite of all he was and did; hard part is knowing he never loved me!
It did a lot of damage. I don't want to have children, and do not want to have a close relationship with anyone. It has made me a person scared of intimacy.
I have a narcissistic mother and brother, and an enabler father. It has affected me in the ability to trust people.<br />
I don't really trust anyone and I am very selective about people in general. I don't like drama.