Did I lose my friend?

guys i messed up big time with her last night and yesterday. Everything was going good and stuff. She was my friend again and we were joking and stuff, then my other friend decided to mess with my facebook and started posing as me and talking to her and said some stuff that shouldn't have been said, but she knew it was my friend cause she texted me. Then i told her that was my fault and started blaming myself for that and she tried to calm me down. Then we started talking about the stuff that happened this year and I upset her she kept telling me to stop talking about the events that happened and i ended up accusing her of saying some bad stuff about me which she never said and that really got to her. So today i texted her and aplogized and she jokingly said she was mad but i didnt know she was joking and when i asked her not to be mad she flipped out on me saying it was a joke and what did she think she was a psycho that was always mad. I think I lost my best friend and i liked her

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Best friends are best friends, even with arguements. Just tell her you're sorry. In fact, you seemed to explain it all right here, just tell her what you told us. I'm sure she'll understand.

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tyco313	Posted Jun 16th, 2009 at 2:41PM Try not to fault people for things that have happened and if you have issues voice them when you have them not ages after... because all that happens is it offends people and the problem becomes obsolete... maybe give her while to cool down an apologize for any miss understandings and let her know how you feel for her flatter her a bit always works ;) Good luck.. I dont think you have lost a friend here you can make a mends if you go about it the right way. Rated: +1Vote for this!
Purehope	Posted Jun 16th, 2009 at 3:44PM Talk to her and just apologize that things got out of hand with both of you misunderstanding each other. Ask her if you can start over as though the past didn't happen and make a pact to listen to each other better. Also that you talk things over quicker before it all spirals out of control. Rated: +1Vote for this!
cherrygrrl	Posted Jun 16th, 2009 at 3:47PM If you want to continue to be friends stop talking about past things. It doesn't seem like she wants to at all. Whats done is done and now you must focus on the future of your friendship. So stop tripping out!! Rated: +1Vote for this!
Shoreboy	Posted Jun 16th, 2009 at 4:09PM Deep breath... okay, exhale... friendships usually go through times like this... just let her know you've just been confused but really value her friendship and you would like to hang out someplace 'neutral' like go see a movie together and then maybe go chat at a cafe' somewhere... simple non-stressful fun. Rated: +1Vote for this!
jules76	Posted Jun 16th, 2009 at 5:01PM All of the above. And for God's sake, try actually speaking to her instead of facebook, texting, etc. Inflection means a lot, and the lack of it leads to countless misunderstandings. Rated: +1Vote for this!
sibyll	Posted Jun 17th, 2009 at 12:57AM Just mean what you say when you apologise to her-if your truly friends she'll still be your friend. Rated: +1Vote for this!
Amadis	Posted Jun 17th, 2009 at 4:10AM best friends would always know when the other is joking and when is serious. I suggest you two have a serious honest talk to solve your "recent past". i don't think you lost your friend, i think you both want something and say something else when you discuss. ah and please, for serious things, STOP TEXTing; eye-to-eye talking is still best way to have a serious discussion. Rated: +1Vote for this!

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