Did it come off as needy?
So the military contractor that I was talking about in a previous question, I haven't heard from him since Wednesday. We chatted on FB messenger back and forth last weekend for a while but he has a reticent personality. I try to give him his space and let him come to me. Since we're not official, there's a lot of gray lines with our communication and the amount of effort each one puts in. It's hard when we met 2 weeks before he deployed.
My question: He's posted on Facebook twice since Wednesday and hasn't written back to my message. Since it's now Sunday, I sent a message just asking "did I say something? not that I meant it to come off in a needy sense..." My last message was a little playful but since text lacks tone, I wasn't sure of the interpretation. Could this have just scared him away? It just hurts my feelings when he can make posts but can't reply to a message.